[will i get married]

I have posted previously about my L about he is obsessed with my past and doesn't trust me at all. I have a doubt now. He is teased by people as he was a flirtatious person. If I ask anything about any girl whom he talks to or has flirted with, he doesn't stop at "It was nothing" or something like that. He always says "I haven't had sex with her" after anything else he says.

I don't know why. Is it cos he is just bugged that he hasn't had sex with anyone but me. Or has he done it but is emphasizing this to say I am not virgin and he is covering some guilt of his The more times he says this, the more I doubt.

[~Christina]

I have followed your story about your relationship with him.

I see you have 2 choices ... Either dump him and find someone who will actually love you for you or learn to just accept his abuse to you. because what he is doing is emotional abuse.

Good luck , I hope you find a way to be happy , you deserve that.