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Old Jan 12, 2014, 10:29 PM
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So I have liked this girl and been stuck in the friend zone for a long time. I recently told her that I really like her and she rejected me. She expects us to still be friends so I just went along with it so she could be happy. This situation kills me inside and to make it worse she flirts with my 3 closest friends and she hooked up with one of them. I could use some advice
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Old Jan 13, 2014, 08:59 AM
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Taking a break from the friendship would be the best thing you could do. Give yourself some time to get over her and hang out with other girls that might be interested in a romantic relationship.
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Old Jan 13, 2014, 03:25 PM
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This woman has clearly no interest in you whatsoever and is totally inconsiderate of your feelings to boot. If that doesn't put you off i think creating some distance between you and her wouldn't hurt.

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Old Jan 13, 2014, 11:51 PM
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You don't have to go along with it if you don't want to. If you don't want to be friends with her, then don't pretend to be friends. If you can't be friends because you want her to be more than that, then you're going to be continously let down and she is going to end up feeling lied to.
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