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Dec 14, 2013, 06:16 PM
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I've been in a on & off relationship for the past 10yrs now. We break up for a few mths then right back together again. I always break it off with him & always for the same reason. He is always talking to other females that he meets on internet dating sites, phone chat lines, in the grocery store etc. He says he isn't cheating. My thought is maybe he isn't sleeping with or even having physical contact with them but it still hurts me. It's disrespectful at the least. I'm open to all opinions/advice. Am I wrong for seeing his actions as unacceptable? Am I wrong for not wanting to be in a relationship with a man that finds this acceptable?
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Dec 16, 2013, 04:01 AM
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I can understand why you would be concerned, mainly because of where he is meeting the women. A relationship is all about trust and if you can't trust him I would suggest that you rethink the relationship. No-one can tell you what to do but you do deserve to be happy.
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Dec 16, 2013, 04:58 AM
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its same happening in my life.
if you cant trust him just leave him. sure he will feels for you. because i have questioned him lot by being with him.i watched him in 24/7. he get depressed about me. now he is not tallking with any girls even to me. i am least important to him now. i am feeling guilty now. may be he was cheating at particular age but he loves me only still he needs me. there is no more love occupied between us. all mens are same in this world. they will cheat lovers by talking with some girls but they wont accept frankly. i am not saying that talking to all girls doesn't mean that they are having affairs. may be they are just friend. he may be hiding because you will suspecting him every time. just express your love to him. try to make him feel guilty by cheating you and talking with other girls. don't questioning him further. try to be calm and please handle him in polite manner.. its all because of possessiveness or insecurities. Showing your love and trusting him can regain your love. just bless the god who gave you a good person who needed you last 10 years.
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