[The.1983]

Well,

Last year in December, I lost my house, car, job and girlfriend. So, I had nothing in my life except my friends and family.

I decided to get my feelings out on a forum, met a really nice girl. We instantly hit it of from the start, messaging each day, sending pictures and she even told me she was in love with me. Crazy hu? I've never met her but there really was something happening between us that was special.

Well, last week, I went out with my friends and woke to a message from her...

'Uh oh, got something to say, I was in a relationship until yesterday. I ended it because he was cheating and beating me.'

I'm sure you can understand my instant reaction, I was gutted! I felt used!
I was un rational in my thoughts and told her how I'd pushed girls away to hopefully be with her.

Well, she's now used that against me to tell me she doesn't have the same feelings for me because of other girls (which nothing happened with). Strange hu?

Is she just hurting because of what she was going through? Should I contact her again even though I told her goodbye three days ago and not had contact since.

I think she's happy. Well some status's I've read from her show she's happy, or is that just a front?

It's only been a month since my ex left me, and I've spoken to this new girl for three weeks every day. She told me I was the best thing in her life and she never wanted to lose me.

I don't understannnnnd!!!!!

Please, give me your insight!

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[gayleggg]

It is really hard to get to know someone on the internet. I think since she wasn't straight with you from the beginning about her being in a relationship I would move along.

[cdnomore]

Ummm yes, she was dishonest with you from the beginning...she is doing exactly what she wants to do in the way that SHE wants to do it...is it what YOU want? It doesn't sound like it...sounds like you got fleeced by a jerk.
I am sorry though, you deserve, we all deserve better...I wish more people would make an effort to get to know people away from the devices, it would save heart-ache.
If it was in REAL time you would have found out a lot sooner than 3 weeks, right? But the internet/texting thing makes it easy for liars to lie.
It takes a while before you can trust someone with your precious heart...make em show with their own actions and words how valuable that is before you set your heart out there for the predators to chew up!