[serenity2298]

What do you do when your best friend starts to ignore you? Maybe I shouldn't say 'ignore' as in such she says she's busy with work and also haven't been feeling well, but when it goes to seeing each other every day to hardly at all, what do you do? I really want my friend back!! She text me saying that she's not avoiding me and that I haven't done anything wrong. But she seems to have the energy to see her other friend. She always used to make time for me but now - nothing, just says she's feeling crappy. What do I do? Have I done something that I never realized or am I being paranoid and obsessive? I just miss her so very very much :'( How can I let her know?

[Rose76]

She is making it clear that seeing you every day is not what she wants. Start contacting her on a less frequent basis. She will appreciate that. Also, find other people to be in contact with. She may have come to feel that you are too emotionally dependent on her. Maybe that was getting tiresome to her. If you value her, accept the reduced contact and make the most of it when you get it.

[serenity2298]

Originally Posted by Rose76

She is making it clear that seeing you every day is not what she wants. Start contacting her on a less frequent basis. She will appreciate that. Also, find other people to be in contact with. She may have come to feel that you are too emotionally dependent on her. Maybe that was getting tiresome to her. If you value her, accept the reduced contact and make the most of it when you get it.

What you're saying is most probably true I just find it hard to accept because it hurts so much. But I will take your advice and contact her less cos that's what I already thought, to give her some space. Only thing is I'm scared of losing her if I do that. But I have no choice really I don't want to be a pest either and be one of those desperate people who are just on someones case constantly...