[emptyandhostile-]

HEADS UP MAY BE TRIGGERING/disturbing.
so this guy i hardly know but have hung out with him once at a bar (had some drinks, & sang karaoke together) I have recently moved away from my hometown (where he is currently living) recently added me back on to facebook. his posts have been really disturbing, and odd. he refers to himself as an angel. and when he speaks to people he refers to them as"Human". long story short this guy got a hold of some naked pictures of me from a friend that was posted publically to a website without my consent, he has since brought up many times he has pictures of me naked, and has seeked my approval asking me what i think of him as a man. his father killed himself apparently, and his mother is loopy, has rapid mood swings, and takes prescription pills like they are candy. he lives with his mother, and plays computer games all day, and is a bit dorky.

he was commenting on all of my fb posts. rated my hotness on a profile picture (which i ended up telling him off because it's just dehumanizing) anyways earlier this morning he was going on about how feminist don't believe in equality, he started insulted me calling me a "w-h-o-r-e" and flying off the handle and telling me to kill myself, and that he was going to kill and rape me. I pretty much told him he was wrong about everything he was saying, and was delusional. then he started rambling on about how his father killed himself because he chose the wrong woman (which would be his mother) he seems to hate women, calls them useless, is really bitter towards women from his past.

here is some of the msgs he sent to me earlier.... heads up it's a bit disturbing.

him : My mother's husband killed himself.

You are a ****ing *****... you scream in my face and tell me I am wrong until I say what you want

Now Im ****ing crying

Are you ****ing happy now?

I hate you

Everytime you talk you do nothing but cause more hate in me

because you think im a mirror, and you cant see yourself as wrong

I father hung himself cause he chose the wrong woman to make a life with

You are a ****ing lying s-c-u-m-b-a-g

and if you arent, you will talk to me until I am or I'm dead

So tell me Human, what options do I have left?

Slavery?

Kill this "Eisen ******" Megan

I assure you the ****** will kill you first

it all makes sense now

And ill watch you bleed to death because you deserved it

**** you

No I just hate hate psychotic women, who cant see flaws in theselves

So they go around humanity having sex with men

And they make pieces of **** like themselves

trust me i KNOW i have flaws haha

Mine is cutting my wrist

Im doing it right now



I just put my tears in the wound

Kill yourself


me: hurting yourself isnt going to solve anything



him :Its solving our trust issue


me: you'll just create bigger problems

him :you dont know what blood and tears are worth

Im the problem

nobody tells me otherwise other then myself


me: are you actually hurting yourself?


him :Im recording it


me: recording what?

Im going to send you the damage you cuased

What im telling you im doing


me: what does that even mean?


him :I t means your going to see a human cutting itself

AND you were wrong

Hope you like the video im making

it might PROVE something about you


me :if i had a phone i would call the cops right now but i don't
i can't tell you what to do sam
but killing yourself isnt worth it
me : why are you video taping it

him :You will judge what you've done

and think what you want

It doesnt matter if you watch ALL my blood come out

you CANT judge a ****ing human

and you pushed it until it gave its life up

congrats



the thing that really bothers me is when he said "it's solving our trust issue" me and this guy have never hooked up, we hung out once. we i don't really speak to him, he just seems really delusional. I know he has mental health problems. I was told me he was bipolar. somebody else told me he was schizophrenic. so who know really. I called the cops when my boyfriend got home, they went to his house and detained him and brought him to the hospital. I didn't charge him. Hopefully I won't end up regretting that decision. He has a long history apparently a week or so ago he was arrested for a concealed weapon he had walked around in a snow storm with a bow and arrow, and a bb gun. there was a picture taken of him being arrested, and he ended up posting it on his facebook. almost seemed like he was bragging about it, or was proud of getting arrested.

Here are are a few of his status updates just to give you an idea of how unstable this guy is :

Useless females shove males in front of them to make up for their mistakes
Real men just know they can kill the female itself if it still lives afterwards and has a brain to judge for ITSELF.
(^ i believe this one is about myself)

I dont EVEN want to do ANYTHING to you. Should I hate myself or not. You OR your husband CANT decide. If you CAN ALL THE TIME. Either of you can CHOOSE to respond. I CANNOT stop EITHER of you.
Ask a ****ing girl this, and a King will want to kill you. Its inevitable. I can NEVER always ****ing win. You ****ing happy Human? ARE YOU ****ING HAPPY YOU MOTHER****ING HUMAN?
I should hope so. *looks away from both a KING and a QUEEN and chooses to protect them because THEY trust him.....

The police will not charge me, and when they bring me to the hospital to check if I'm mentally stable, the doctors gets as confused as I do.
Congratulations for wasting my time, ****ing human. It BETTER have been for a good reason.

I'm going to go **** someone. They are going to let me, or not. Only we will know. You can go "****" yourself until you care or die. Deal? Deal.

Humans die everyday in every way imaginable.
You are stuck in a first world country on a planet overfilled with humans. Humans dying for NO reason....... Humans for other human's STUPID reasons. Or HUMANS not DYING AT ALL.
Angels solve problems. Humans will eat their own **** and die if they have to like cowards, and say nothing until its over for THEMSELVES ONLY

yeah so needless to say I'm going to have a hard time sleeping tonight. if anyone has any sort of clue on what i should do, and what may be wrong with this guy so i can get some sort of closure that would be nice.

[lightinthesky]

Originally Posted by emptyandhostile-

HEADS UP MAY BE TRIGGERING/disturbing.
so this guy i hardly know but have hung out with him once at a bar (had some drinks, & sang karaoke together) I have recently moved away from my hometown (where he is currently living) recently added me back on to facebook. his posts have been really disturbing, and odd. he refers to himself as an angel. and when he speaks to people he refers to them as"Human". long story short this guy got a hold of some naked pictures of me from a friend that was posted publically to a website without my consent, he has since brought up many times he has pictures of me naked, and has seeked my approval asking me what i think of him as a man. his father killed himself apparently, and his mother is loopy, has rapid mood swings, and takes prescription pills like they are candy. he lives with his mother, and plays computer games all day, and is a bit dorky.

he was commenting on all of my fb posts. rated my hotness on a profile picture (which i ended up telling him off because it's just dehumanizing) anyways earlier this morning he was going on about how feminist don't believe in equality, he started insulted me calling me a "w-h-o-r-e" and flying off the handle and telling me to kill myself, and that he was going to kill and rape me. I pretty much told him he was wrong about everything he was saying, and was delusional. then he started rambling on about how his father killed himself because he chose the wrong woman (which would be his mother) he seems to hate women, calls them useless, is really bitter towards women from his past.

here is some of the msgs he sent to me earlier.... heads up it's a bit disturbing.

him : My mother's husband killed himself.

You are a ****ing *****... you scream in my face and tell me I am wrong until I say what you want

Now Im ****ing crying

Are you ****ing happy now?

I hate you

Everytime you talk you do nothing but cause more hate in me

because you think im a mirror, and you cant see yourself as wrong

I father hung himself cause he chose the wrong woman to make a life with

You are a ****ing lying s-c-u-m-b-a-g

and if you arent, you will talk to me until I am or I'm dead

So tell me Human, what options do I have left?

Slavery?

Kill this "Eisen ******" Megan

I assure you the ****** will kill you first

it all makes sense now

And ill watch you bleed to death because you deserved it

**** you

No I just hate hate psychotic women, who cant see flaws in theselves

So they go around humanity having sex with men

And they make pieces of **** like themselves

trust me i KNOW i have flaws haha

Mine is cutting my wrist

Im doing it right now



I just put my tears in the wound

Kill yourself


me: hurting yourself isnt going to solve anything



him :Its solving our trust issue


me: you'll just create bigger problems

him :you dont know what blood and tears are worth

Im the problem

nobody tells me otherwise other then myself


me: are you actually hurting yourself?


him :Im recording it


me: recording what?

Im going to send you the damage you cuased

What im telling you im doing


me: what does that even mean?


him :I t means your going to see a human cutting itself

AND you were wrong

Hope you like the video im making

it might PROVE something about you


me :if i had a phone i would call the cops right now but i don't
i can't tell you what to do sam
but killing yourself isnt worth it
me : why are you video taping it

him :You will judge what you've done

and think what you want

It doesnt matter if you watch ALL my blood come out

you CANT judge a ****ing human

and you pushed it until it gave its life up

congrats



the thing that really bothers me is when he said "it's solving our trust issue" me and this guy have never hooked up, we hung out once. we i don't really speak to him, he just seems really delusional. I know he has mental health problems. I was told me he was bipolar. somebody else told me he was schizophrenic. so who know really. I called the cops when my boyfriend got home, they went to his house and detained him and brought him to the hospital. I didn't charge him. Hopefully I won't end up regretting that decision. He has a long history apparently a week or so ago he was arrested for a concealed weapon he had walked around in a snow storm with a bow and arrow, and a bb gun. there was a picture taken of him being arrested, and he ended up posting it on his facebook. almost seemed like he was bragging about it, or was proud of getting arrested.

Here are are a few of his status updates just to give you an idea of how unstable this guy is :

Useless females shove males in front of them to make up for their mistakes
Real men just know they can kill the female itself if it still lives afterwards and has a brain to judge for ITSELF.
(^ i believe this one is about myself)

I dont EVEN want to do ANYTHING to you. Should I hate myself or not. You OR your husband CANT decide. If you CAN ALL THE TIME. Either of you can CHOOSE to respond. I CANNOT stop EITHER of you.
Ask a ****ing girl this, and a King will want to kill you. Its inevitable. I can NEVER always ****ing win. You ****ing happy Human? ARE YOU ****ING HAPPY YOU MOTHER****ING HUMAN?
I should hope so. *looks away from both a KING and a QUEEN and chooses to protect them because THEY trust him.....

The police will not charge me, and when they bring me to the hospital to check if I'm mentally stable, the doctors gets as confused as I do.
Congratulations for wasting my time, ****ing human. It BETTER have been for a good reason.

I'm going to go **** someone. They are going to let me, or not. Only we will know. You can go "****" yourself until you care or die. Deal? Deal.

Humans die everyday in every way imaginable.
You are stuck in a first world country on a planet overfilled with humans. Humans dying for NO reason....... Humans for other human's STUPID reasons. Or HUMANS not DYING AT ALL.
Angels solve problems. Humans will eat their own **** and die if they have to like cowards, and say nothing until its over for THEMSELVES ONLY

yeah so needless to say I'm going to have a hard time sleeping tonight. if anyone has any sort of clue on what i should do, and what may be wrong with this guy so i can get some sort of closure that would be nice.

Why do you need a closure? Leave him in peace and don't try to be his doctor because you are not one, people don't become like that from a happy life, he didn't either. He obviously needs some help but don't be the one helping him, cut him off.

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If it were me?

I would make every attempt to file a protective order at this point, honestly.
The procedure and what situations apply vary from place to place- I would pursue that into the ground though.

It's not a matter of being 'mean' to this person, but a matter of protecting yourself at this point.

You have no idea how to predict this person's actions.
Though an order of protection doesn't always do something in itself [unfourtunately], there are various details, depending on the order- if any part of the order is broken, it will be out of your hands whether charges are filed if it is reported because it is a court order. But to be honest, at that point it would be necessary to file charges.

A lot of people may say to pursue that would be to overreact.
i would be willing to bet many of those people have never been in a similar situation.

[I have. at least investigate whether your situation is eligible for a restraining order/order or protection and make some sort of decision with that information. please.]

ETA: you should be blocking this person every way possibly imaginable throughout the internet at this point.

[RichardBrooks]

There's a story about a guy finding a poisonous snake in the snow and taking it into his home, putting it in a box and setting it near the heater to get warm. When the snake bit him, he was shocked and asked "Why? You would have frozen to death. I saved you life and now you've killed me." The snake said, "You knew I was a snake when you picked me up."
I have to agree with Josie. Check into an order of protection, block the guy from your facebook, phone, everything, and have no further contact with him. He's obviously delusional, paranoid, violent, and fixated on you. You can't fix or help him. You can protect yourself.

[healingme4me]

I would save screen pics of each and every conversation, so that you have a time and date stamp. Print it, and bring with you, if pursuing protective orders.

Blocking him, on FB, is another suggestion.

Not sure, what you mean, about finding closure with this one?

[niceguy]

I think he means he is an Angel- of death.
He seems to think the solution for all females is to die. ( that would solve both your problems).
the others are right. I understand the closure, in the sense that you don't want him to hurt himself because of you, for the guilt would eat at you.
He does sound like he has a mixture of issues - and btw how did he get naked photos of you? Wtf were you thinking?
All the best though, But be aware this will not end well.

[justbeingme80]

I think you should file a protective order against him and delete him from facebook. take printouts of what you posted here to the police. He sounds very unstable and I can understand the need to want to help him, but do you really know what he is capable of? Some of his posts really concern me and I worry you might not be safe. Does he know where you live? (sorry if I missed that in your post). Please be careful with him.