[clarity25]

I'm basically concerned about what I do seem to other people, there are a lot of people that I have been meeting at work, or elsewhere. Some may just "come and go" thing, which kinda makes me disappointed, especially if I really wanted that person to be a part of my life. But of course this happens and we have no control over it. But in order to be able to make yourself be a part of someone else's life for good, I am trying my best to improve myself in communication, since I am an introvert, and it's very struggling for me to do that. Can I just ask for advice on how to make my conversation with someone not too serious or boring (coz I think I'm like that person, bland type of conversation only I could afford). I'm comfortable and slightly funny when the person I am with is already close to me, like my closest friends, family. Of course I cannot easily do that with new people I've met or I've been with. It takes time for me to be able to do that. I'm worrying that they may get bored or fed up with me which makes me disappointing. Thanks for the help.

[Rose3]

Sounds like you're hoping for friends who will stay in your life. Some will. Some leave. How do we know who will stay or who won't? Maybe get involved in activities that interest you, and there you will meet other with similar interests, (and their own unique interests, and your unique interests). Keep meeting people.

[Marshellette]

Be like, what's up, wanna hang out...AGAIN.