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Feb 16, 2014, 12:41 PM
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i had never thought i would post about this EVER but here i am. she is driving me nuts!!! before she came into picture i was the only girl in my home and everybody loved me despite some flaws and attitude. then my brother got married and this freak came in our home they dont live with us permanently just visit us every now and then but what freaks me out it that my family knows that she doent like me and she behaves poorly with me but STILL nobody says anything to her nobody discourages this behaviour and im becoming insane!!!! she is such an actress!! believe me she doent even like coming over but when she does she just drives me crazy with bad behaviour with me and good behaviour with rest of my family! please suggest something im going nuts!
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Feb 16, 2014, 02:45 PM
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Could you be more specific? Not really sure what you are dealing with here. Why is she a "freak"?
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Feb 16, 2014, 02:46 PM
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Can you be away for the day when they come over for a visit? It sounds like a terrible situation to be in. What kind of thing does she do or say that's negatively directed at you?
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Feb 16, 2014, 03:34 PM
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im married to her brother and apparently she doesnt like that and is jealous of me. she is such a drama queen. she is usually talking nicely with other family members but doesnt talk with me and if i try to talk to her she thinks i mock her and replies scornfully. and i hate that my other family members dont even notice this. trust me im not making this up. she even tried to sabotage my relationship with my husband and now its driving me crazy that why nobody says something to her!!!
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Feb 16, 2014, 03:37 PM
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i'd love that but that is not really a solution because that will mean i 'll have to avoid meeting my brother aswell. |
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Feb 16, 2014, 05:50 PM
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I don't really have any advice because your posts aren't very specific. All I clearly get is that your family adored you until the day she came along, and that she is 2 faced. I'm also not sure why you need the family to call her out on her behaviour  is there a reason you're not standing up for yourself?Your family may not want to rock the boat and choose sides, especially not if its a closely entwined family. They may be more inclined to keep the peace and maybe even feel that you're a grown woman and that if you have a problem with her, then its your place to rectify the situation, not theirs. I'm sorry if I misunderstood or misread the situation, but that's all I got for now. 
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Feb 17, 2014, 12:17 PM
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i have discussed the situation with my family because i was really upset about the whole situation and i had sort of cut off from my other family members because i had to stay in my room to avoid confrontation with her. in nutshell..my family members feel that it was totally my fault that my relationship with sister in law is ruined because i am mean n dont really care about other people's feelings while she is a very sweet girl. very well
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Feb 17, 2014, 01:58 PM
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she is being polite and jolly with everybody else at home except me. i have been told that she provoke her and i can assure you that thats not the case!  it puts me in a very awkward situation to be around her when she is also there with my family. my family is very supportive and forgiving and they have forgiven her for some horrible things she did. i hate that my family members put her on a higher pedestal while im around.
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Feb 17, 2014, 08:27 PM
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Sorry, I guess I am just not getting "the picture" here, you haven't described anything she has done that has been "horrible", or provocative, just given her labels.
It does sound as though you feel she is more liked than you are...and this upsets you; that is all I can get from what you are writing so far...
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