[The Fox & the Hound]

Ok, I'm sick of this.

My friend(R) is in this relationship with this one guy. He has threaten suicide, or said he was suicidal when they weren't close, or stop the relationship. My other friend(E)actually date him,before this friend date him. She broke with him for good reasons.
• Realtionship E:He was exteremely controlling- he didn't let her talk to anyone or be by anyone. Just him. She couldn't talk about other boys, too.

• Realtionship R(Which is now)It seems like it this relationship too. She seems to get annoyed with me very easily. She just says hi to her friends, doesn't talk to anyone else beside him

• He has threaten both friends with suicide,& self harm. Whether if it was because they weren't close, were breaking up, or reasons.

• He's been arrest. He's been to jail. He threaten his mom, throw an sandwhich at his mom. He

• He seems to be obsessed with sex. He showed his penis to E. He said he loved nipples, a few weeks ago. He watches porm. Seems overly cuddly with R.

• R was scared of him.

A ton of people are telling her (R) to stay away, the ones who know the truth

[The Fox & the Hound]

Also, they seem to go in this cycle. They slowly get closer. Then they break up. Avoid each other. Then get back together again

[stefi91]

As a friend, all you can do is be there. Trust me I know what you are talking about. When I was a lot younger, my sister was in a horrible relationship. Although his true colors did not come out until after they were married. They had three children together. My sister was not allowed to speak to any of her family. Her husband filed assault charges against my brother even though my brother was on a tug boat hundreds of miles away at the time all because we attempted to make contact. My sister called out of the blue when we had not spoken to her in nearly a year in secret. A week later an institution called saying my sister needed to speak to her mom and dad. Her husband had drugged her and called the cops. She fought for almost 2 years to divorce the man and get her kids back, while he refused to let her have contact with the children. She unfortunately passed away from a blood clot in her heart, but she was still fighting for divorce and custody.
I hope your friend eventually wakes up and sees the toxicness of her relationship. But in the meantime, realize that sometimes people are blind to the horribleness of a certain relationship.

[The Fox & the Hound]

She noticed it was bad Realtionship when she wasn't with him. But she see keeps going back in the relationship. She misses him.

It's all in the past he won't do it again. That's what she says.

He also treated her like crap . He was horrible to her

[gayleggg]

I, too, feel all you can really do is let it play itself out. I know you want to see them safely away from this guy, but there is not much you can do, except watch and help them when they have finally had enough. I know it is hard to stand around and do nothing but nothing you say or do is going to have any effect until your friends wakes up one day and realizes she had enough, until then take care of yourself.

[The Fox & the Hound]

Yeah , I can't convience or tell her anything she just gets angry. Even if she knows the truth. Still doesn't admit it.