[encore]

Hi lovely people,

my mother tongue is not English and I do not get the following.. I would be so relieved if you could help.

short description of my situation:
I was dating a girl, we got emotionally very, very close.. (she said, she really, really liked me, holding hands, very emotional physical contact, I was special to her etc.) and she cheated on me (even though we were not in a relationship, I asked her once but she refused cuz she was "not ready").. I completely shut down.. we didn't have contact for about 2 weeks now and she just sent me this song, telling me this is exactly how she feels right now..

can't post links yet sorry.. so please go to youtube and look for the song "the weeknd - rolling stone"

via google (the weeknd rolling stone lyrics) there are the lyrics.

I don't get what the "I got you" means.. and this passage:
"So baby love me
Before they all love me
Until you won't love me
Because they all love me
I'll be different
I think I'll be different
I hope I'm not different
And I hope you'll still listen"

Is she implying that I need to chase her right now otherwise she will randomly **** others and change in how she's feeling about me?
I totally don't get it because she HAD my love already, why should I chase her? I'm the one that's pretty much hurt right now :-/

I' be really happy if you could interpret this for me.. because I do not want to ask her, this will enable contact again and if she's really wanting me to chase her now,... no way.

Thanks you so much in advance, I'm so confused and sad right now

[bluekoi]

Hello encore and welcome to PsychCentral.

How long were you dating? To me it sounds like she is just looking for attention. I would find a new girlfriend who appreciates you and who is not into playing games with your emotions.

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[waiting4]

Originally Posted by encore

:
"So baby love me
Before they all love me
Until you won't love me
Because they all love me
I'll be different
I think I'll be different
I hope I'm not different
And I hope you'll still listen"

hmmmm Well, near as I can tell (not being familiar with the song)

She doesn't feel special
She knows others think she is, and she'll accept that
but she doesn't really believe it, except when you say it
then she does, but only for awhile, until you finally see what she really is
and then you won't think so anymore.

Of course, she could stay special for you
she hopes she can, and she hopes you'll stay, even if she isn't.

That's my take.

Originally Posted by encore

Hi lovely people,

my mother tongue is not English and I do not get the following.. I would be so relieved if you could help.

short description of my situation:
I was dating a girl, we got emotionally very, very close.. (she said, she really, really liked me, holding hands, very emotional physical contact, I was special to her etc.) and she cheated on me (even though we were not in a relationship, I asked her once but she refused cuz she was "not ready").. I completely shut down.. we didn't have contact for about 2 weeks now and she just sent me this song, telling me this is exactly how she feels right now..

can't post links yet sorry.. so please go to youtube and look for the song "the weeknd - rolling stone"

via google (the weeknd rolling stone lyrics) there are the lyrics.

I don't get what the "I got you" means.. and this passage:
"So baby love me
Before they all love me
Until you won't love me
Because they all love me
I'll be different
I think I'll be different
I hope I'm not different
And I hope you'll still listen"

Is she implying that I need to chase her right now otherwise she will randomly **** others and change in how she's feeling about me?
I totally don't get it because she HAD my love already, why should I chase her? I'm the one that's pretty much hurt right now :-/

I' be really happy if you could interpret this for me.. because I do not want to ask her, this will enable contact again and if she's really wanting me to chase her now,... no way.

Thanks you so much in advance, I'm so confused and sad right now

Well to be honest, the words you posted are nonsensical even as a native english speaker. It's full of contradiction and confusion, ther is no wonder you're not sure what it means and even as you don't want to ask her, you need to do just that because she's the only one that can know what she meant.