[devastatedwife]

I am new to this forum and not really sure why I am here...other than I feel very alone!
This past w/e I found out my DH has been on myspace under a fake name for several months......I found out from one of my female employee's who said she had rec. an email from a fellow named ****** which is not my DH's name.....but in the email the guy informed her he was her boss's husband and not to tell me he was online.

You need a little hx on the employee - her marriage is very rocky and they both cheat on each other. She will freq. meet guys she talks to online. My DH knew she was this type of person because he has heard me counseling her on the phone before! He had prob. seen her at my work acouple of times when he has came to see me BUT they were not friends!

Back to my DH - in his email to her, he asked why she went all the way to **** to meet guys when all she had to do was come to our town! I also recognized this fake name - I had caught him on adultfriendfinders a few years ago and prior to the computer it was adult partylines on the phone!

Of course he tells me I have it all wrong...it was only a joke....nothing happened...etc.......

ALll I do is cry, my heart is broken, I can't eat. I just called my Dr to see if he can order me something to calm my nerves! No one in the world knows what i am going through. No family and the kids do not know. Everyone thinks I have such a wonderful life and such as wonderful husband. We have been married for 27 years! I'm sure I will be the talk of my work by next week!! I have to face this girl every week - I feel like quiting my job but I hate to do that.

He has cried telling me he won't do it again....the same song and dance I heard before. I can't trust him.......I am devastated!!!!

[EJ711]

Dear Devastated Wife,

What a shocker!!

I'm so sorry.

What is he crazy to involve one of your employees!!??

Feel free to PM me if you like.

Husbands -- can't live with them -- can't live without them!!

Welcome to PC. There are a lot of really supportive people here.

Hugs,

EJ

[justaguy]

im so sorry, you need a break so you can breath go to a hotel and spend as long as it takes to hold your head up and think about what your going to do. first fire that ,well put own word in.

[Soidhonia]

Hello I am sorry to hear about this problem that you are having. Maybe marriage counseling would help you and your husband. I think you really need to get professional help for your marriage and your problems, sometimes marriage counseling can help in a lot of ways, to save the relationship. I hope the best for you take care Soidhonia

i hope you find the help you need. with my temper, he would have been fed the keyboard and mouse by now........xoxoxo pat