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Old Jun 19, 2014, 09:10 PM
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Broke up. It has to be for good this time. We fall too close too easily. It's too hard to go and be friends. We have different values. He was use to relationships involving intercourse. I want to wait until marriage. We grew close and both feel a desire to have sex. To me there is too much risk involved with having intercourse. He knows I want marriage and maybe kids one day, even if I don't think it now. He doesn't want that. But wouldn't have a problem living together.

I hope I made the right choice.

It hurts right now. I miss him. I miss his company. I miss texting. I miss so much.
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Old Jun 19, 2014, 11:06 PM
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Hello, June55. You will be grieving for awhile. Nonetheless, you stood by your principles.
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Old Jun 21, 2014, 01:37 AM
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Dear June55, I am sorry you are hurting. I know what it feels like...and how...you will feel better one day...meanwhile hold on to what you have: your friends, family, job...don't be a fool like me!!!!
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Old Jun 21, 2014, 06:47 AM
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((((June55))))
Sorry to read of your sorrow.

Some values are worth holding onto. A man who's willing to match that value, plus be everything else for you, is worth his weight in gold, and they are out there.

It's not like marriage and the desire for marriage is an uncommon need. This guy clearly isn't long term material for you. You'll thank yourself later.



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