[PianogirlPlays]

Hurt and ignored I have just spent two days suffering. I finally realized I was being unfairly treated. I had not done a thing. He was just going back to old ways of treating me. Honestly I just told him no not ever again . It is a way to really crush another human beings personality . My whole being is angry and my head feels like it could explode . This after trying so hard to take care of him.

[trying2survive]

Originally Posted by PianogirlPlays

Hurt and ignored I have just spent two days suffering. I finally realized I was being unfairly treated. I had not done a thing. He was just going back to old ways of treating me. Honestly I just told him no not ever again . It is a way to really crush another human beings personality . My whole being is angry and my head feels like it could explode . This after trying so hard to take care of him.

leave him, no need to put up with continual abuse. put your foot down and move on, save yourself the grief.

[Rhapsody]

If you can find the courage and strength with in your self to leave this relationship then I suggest you do it soon --save your self years of heartache trying or waiting for him to change. (((hugs)))

[Jolisse]

I know what a bad relationship can do to you, I've been in one.
You need to leave, before he does more damage to your self worth. I know it's difficult to walk away, but you need to be strong and protect yourself.

[PianogirlPlays]

I had a long talk with him today. It was painful. He admitted he could see the abusiveness. We have had many good times but bad times too. I did draw the line. We are older and in fact have no place or way to go anywhere. I told him so though. I felt a little better for it and it is complicated. I am back in pain but mainly because I am so stuck in it. I appreciate the caring .

[SilverNeurotic]

I had a friend in a similar position, it does not get any better. If you really want the relationship to work, and your partner is willing to work...then try counseling...but if there is any doubt, probably best to leave. Nothing is worse then being stuck in a bad and abusive relationship.