Older women and younger guys

I am seeing a 26 year old guy. I am 59 years old. He is in love with me and I am having strong feelings for him to. I know this is not logical but it is complicated. I am engaged to a 35 year old. He do not make me feel the way the 26 year old makes me feel. My fiancee is in Nigeria and his sex was terrible when I visit him. I am thinking of following my heart not my age. Any advice please.

WOW. No advice, sorry...just WOW.

I normally think that the age difference would matter but my ex recently married a woman old enough to be his mother. What do you have in common with the 26 year old besides the good sex? Can you talk? does he listen to your feelings? Sorry I don't really have any advice. Seems like something you have to decide on your own.

Odds are against the relationship lasting, but sometimes...we beat the odds.

If you aren't willing to work through things with your fiance, ending that seems the fair thing to do.

If your heart is with this younger man, you could explore it with less guilt, without an engagement looming. And is marriage important? Could last long term, or be an experience to remember.

Hope you are able to sort through it.

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Perhaps the 26 yr old came into your life just in time to show you a deficiency in your relationship with the fiancé that you did not realize before. Maybe you can work with fiancé to make things better. If not, you know the options.

As for 26 yr old, I personally just see him as a good time for you and not long term. Anything is possible but if you go with him I suggest keeping in mind that it may only be a short term fling. Your true match may be neither of these guys.

Let me ask is the guy in Nigeria seeking U.S. visa? I am 32,from my experience I had a serious ex boyfriend 28 year old that was horrible in bed but very sweet, caring, and understanding.
I had met a 23year old while I was in serious relationship that was fantastic in bed. He won me over from my relationship this guy lives in different country and I feel he was trying to sell me a dream and do best in bed so I would get him a U.S. Visa. We were working on building a long distance relationship and wanted to get a visa in future. His actions showed me that I was getting set up for failure if I continued to try to bring him to U.S.
He was not mature, he did not know what he wanted but swore he was in love etc to butter me up. Then I found out he was wearing a mask. Social media tells all! I'll leave it at that. I was left with lies,betrayal,low self esteem, etc.

Now I am left to repair and love myself. I am alone I have nobody I got so caught up in this dream that this guy was telling me for reality failure.

proceed with caution with the age diff the younger guy's have the tools to play a game to get what they want! I wish you the best in this. I hope it works better than my experience. I have too many mental problems to go through this.

please be careful if you are dating men you met online that are from foreign countries. they typically want money and/or a visa and will pull out all the stops trying to convince you they are really in love with you. never send any money to these guys. ever. some carry this charade on for years as they are desperate to leave their countries. this recently happened to a neighbor of mine. she's in her late 60s and was dating a guy in his mid-20s from morocco. it was all a marriage visa scam so he could come to the US. people tried to warn her but she fell for his b.s. these men know who to target who will likely fall for their scam. if you google this you will find lots of info on it.

My Wife is three and a half years older than me and all the women I usually find myself most attracted to (apart from my first girlfriend that passed away) are older than me so I guess you can say I like older women but that is a huge age difference and I think both of you really need to think your future through.