[WillowWolf]

I went out in the world once again and got my heart broken again. It's a long story so I'll explain it to you all as best as I can.

I met a guy who I felt a real connection with, however he had a girlfriend. Now normally I would never consider flirting or going after someone who is already taken but I was told by a lot of friends that his relationship with his girlfriend wasn't a good one. So yes, I did go after someone who was taken which really goes against my moral code but I just really liked him and it seemed like he really liked me too.
I spent a lot of my time with him and when ever we were alone he treated me like someone would treat their girlfriend. However recently I had decided that even though I didn't know his girlfriend it wasn't right to go behind her back so I decided to talk to him about what was going on between the two of us with him.
When I tried to talk to him about it he avoided the questions that I asked him and gave me a really sweet speech about how special I was to him.
I let it go for a while but then brought it up again to him and this time his answer was different. He said that I was only just a friend.
Which confused me and made me really upset. I went on to say that I guessed that the time that we had spent together meant nothing to him, unless I had taken everything the wrong way. I said that unless he kissed and cuddle with every girl that was simply just his friend that I had just been stupid. To which he informed me that he does that with all the girl's that he happens to be just friends with.
So now I'm left feeling really stupid and heart broken because I really did like this guy. I know that he's not worth my tears but I just feel like I wish I could have not asked him what was going on between us. Then I could have been with him longer, which I know is dumb but I honestly do miss him.
I'm not sure what to do really.

[~Christina]

Im sorry this has happened to you .. Its normal to grieve the loss of "relationship" you had with him.

Keep yourself busy with other real friends and you will get over this.

*hugs*

[healingme4me]

I'm astounded in his reply about being like this with all his female friends.
What a tease.
I'm sorry you are in pain, right now. Perhaps read up on the emotionally unavailable man, and how to overcome this and not fall for the same demoralizing trap, again.