[TheStallion]

So I recently went to the doctor for a non-psych issue. And of course my medical history becomes part of the convo. I tell the dr. I was diagnosed BP and she says rather abruptly "I don't know if I buy that". She didn't know any family history or even my history for that matter. The different meds I've tried etc. etc. Clearly this topic regarding the stigma of BP has been discussed at great length, but apparently our society refuses to acknowledge that brain chemistry might not be same for everyone. I guess it sort of surprises me when I see it amongst the medical community. I suppose I expect it from non-educated types or people who wake up with a **** eating grin on their face every morning, who say "it's all about staying positive" lol. I'm not trying to stereotype people, I just feel like when BP enters the conversation it receives the same scrutiny that religion gets. As if it's this intangible farce.

So I ask the psych central community, how do you guys deal with the side of public that undermines us and says we all have ups and downs?!

[~Christina]

I just let it roll of my back like Im a duck ... Personally I am not going to get worked up over these kinda issues .

[Travelinglady]

Hey, The Stallion. I pay no attention. As you say, they are ignorant. I definitely accept my bipolar diagnosis, given I know what I experience is W-A-Y beyond normal ups and downs.

Get a different doctor. What that MD is really telling you is that she doesn't know how to cope with your diagnosis, or possible with mental illness in general. NOT someone you what to trust with your life.

[hvert]

I agree about considering another doctor. That is a very strange thing for a professional to say. Even if you keep her, it may be worthwhile to confront her, if you are otherwise happy with her care and believe this is just an instance of poor bedside manner.

[TheStallion]

It was an ER doc in Richmond, VA...never wanted to be back home in Cali so bad! Sister rags your insight is impeccable!! Haha...fortunately I never have to go back there. I recently had a family member attack the diagnosis as well, and I never even told him myself. Guess you gotta keep things under wraps

[brainhi]

One of my close friends and I get in this discussion now and then. His mind is so brilliant in many ways...but when we talk about mental health...hmmm. He has never experienced or seen 1st hand some of what I have seen in my life...if he had, he would never question it. I have seen my mom get so bizarre -very severe BP & maybe a little bit Schizophrenic - back when they did not have the drugs they have now. There is no way to fake that. I've given up on some of these discussions with him - "when" he sees it - not "if" he sees it, he will understand.

It does not matter to me anymore if others do not believe it. I know, that is enough for me. And, yes I would have a problem with a doctor saying that to me. I would definitely let the doc know that was an incredibly irresponsible remark.