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Old Sep 13, 2014, 04:25 PM
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We'll, tomorrow hopefully, will be with my new crush. And am sure it's normal to be nervous but my nerves arint exactly about the date. It's about him and myself. Just worried what will he think of me. Willhe find me to be awkward or will he think that I am too young to be dating him? And what should I think of him. What if he just wants to get in my 27 year old pants?

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Old Sep 13, 2014, 07:43 PM
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Its normal to feel anxious on a first date. Just be yourself and Im sure he will think well of you.. You wont know how the date is going to turn out until you have the date..

Maybe you just wont like him for a million reasons.. Try not to borrow trouble and anxiety before you have ever gone out. If he is just on a date for sex... its simple..... walk away...

Hopefully you are meeting in a public place and if you aren't comfortable with him you can leave the situation.

Stay safe and enjoy
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Old Sep 14, 2014, 08:26 AM
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First date jitters are normal On my first date with my current bf (also, technically, the first real DATE I've ever been on as all my past relationships started with either friends or 1 night stands...) we were out for 3 hours at a restaurant... and I talked non-stop because I was sooo nervous and felt like a total idiot!

If you're already set for a date, then he doesn't think you are to young for him. Just be yourself as much as you can - if he doesn't like you as you are, then you won't need to waste your time with him anymore!

And if you're worried that he just wants sex... then make sure you don't go to either your place or his. You'll find out quickly how things stand like that.

Try to view the nervousness as excitement - like you're about to go on a roller coaster or through a haunted house. Sorta potentially scary, but it will be tons of fun!
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