had a great day, back to old bubbly self, happy, relaxed,went to friends, had good night, came home, hubby had face like thunder.

can understand he's having bad time himself, puts up with me, diagnosed with diabetes and he is on insulin which could cause aggression i spose. just real bad timing, good day ruined.

maybe i'm just selfish. seems he gets ina mood when it suits him, was happy enough at friends house, bit quiet.

sorry, strange rambling post, needed to air it

jin

[Rhapsody]

<font color="purple"> ((((((( HUGS ))))))) ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ((((((( HUGS ))))))) </font>

Been there many times..... and then again so has he. But I understand the anger and confusion you are feeling over how he can ruin a good day for you and with just one simple little mood swing - I too am confused.

LoVe,
Rhapsody -

Not sure its just a "man" thing. To be honest that describes me a few yrs back. When I was in the grips of my personality disorders. I was outraged that people/hubby could dare to enjoy themselves and not focus on the attention on ME! geez I shudder thinking about it now. What a selfish imature controlling ***** I was. No no, I must have emphaphy, I was sick and didn't no how to act any differently.

Growing up verbal communiation consided of being told and not being able to discuss. Sulking was a power tool I used to try and get understood, Didnt get the chance to develop communication tools.

If I were you, I would address your husbands "mood" ask him is there something he wants to talk about? did he not enjoy the evening? Let him know that its not acceptable to behave in that way. Your both adults. BUT remain calm at all costs, don't let his non verbal actions have power, or he will only learn that he gets exactly what he wants this way?

thankyou mouse, thankyou xxx

[Rhapsody]

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Not sure its just a "man" thing. To be honest that describes me a few yrs back. When I was in the grips of my personality disorders.

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I agree it is not always just a "man" thing - we females can do this too...... but in this case it is a woman venting, therefore, it must be a "MAN" thing.

LoVe & ReSpEcT to every one in a relationship that can relate to this thread at one time or another.

LoVe,
Rhapsody - ((( hugs )))

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Not sure its just a "man" thing. To be honest that describes me a few yrs back. When I was in the grips of my personality disorders.

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I agree it is not always just a "man" thing - we females can do this too...... but in this case it is a woman venting, therefore, it must be a "MAN" thing.

LoVe,
Rhapsody - ((( hugs )))

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sorry you lost me, not to worry.

[Rhapsody]

LOL- Sorry....................

Basically I was agreeing with you that it is not just a male thing - that we females do this too...... yet in this particular thread it was a "men" thing for it was a woman venting about her man and not that of a man venting about his woman, which would make it a "women" thing then - lol.

No Worries.......................................... Its All Good!

LoVe,
Rhapsody -

[SeptemberMorn]

Jinny, many people that have diabetes also have depression... because the diabetes makes life different for them.

You suppose maybe he was sorry the evening was over? Maybe it was a good distraction for him and when it was over, reality hit him again. I don't think it's a "man thing."