[Aishasingh]

<P>I am with my current boyfriend for the last 8months. He is good,but very short tempered,possessive, and sumtimes a bit insensitive I think! But last month he is transfered to a different state.he has never stayed away from his home until now and h</P><P>is very pampered by his parents in every possible. Now having to go there and doing chores himself has really disturbed him a lot. He gets irritated very easily,doesnt speak to me much.i understand he is going through a difficult time.</P><P>now when he came home a few days back, we met.i was very happy ...but he seemed a bit annoyed,pressured.i felt awkward. He didnt talk much. But then we made love. At that very moment he didnt say anything good or bad...but now he said me dat he didnt feel anything and dat may b his one is too small or mine is too big. I just didnt know wat to say.i felt shattered. I love him a lot. I am kinda obsessed with him.he doesnt like me talking to other guys so I blocked out my friends,moved out of social sites. But all these things didnt really matter to me as long as he loves me.i feel weird sometimes ...when he stats online in chatroom but dsnt talk to me.i feel like he doesnt want me anymore.</P><P>I had a boyfriend before him with whom I was physically active and my present knows about it.</P><P>I am trying desperately to make things better among us..but nothing really seems to work in favour. I just couldnt understand at times what to do! Please please help me.</P>

[Blue_Bird]

Hi Aishasingh, welcome to PC!

You may want to check out our "Relationships and Communication" forum.

I hope you enjoy your time here and find what you're looking for. Feel free to contact any of us Community Liaisons if you have any questions or concerns.

-Take care,

[spondiferous]

Welcome to PC, Aishasingh. It definitely sounds like a distressing situation. I agree that checking out the Relationships forum might be a good start; you may find more similar experiences there. In the mean time, it might be helpful to consider what it is that you are getting out of this relationship, and if it is worth sticking around.
Welcome again to PC. I hope you enjoy it here, and find the support you are looking for.

[ifthespiritmovesme]

You are in an abusive relationship, and men like this rarely ever change. If you want love, you will need to look elsewhere. This man is too wrapped up in himself to ever be able to show you love. Sorry if this is not what you want to hear, but it is true. Your boyfriend is too wrapped up in himself to ever care about anyone else.