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Old Dec 17, 2014, 01:34 AM
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Hello everyone!
I just have a quick question
My boyfriend and I are on the rocks a little bit right now (as happens in all relationships) And over the weekend we had a real heart to heart about how we feel about everything that has been going on between the two of us lately. (This is a HUGE step for us, as neither of us are very good at speaking feelings)
We came to the conclusion that at this point we know that we are probably temporary, if we cannot figure some way to see each other more and be more comfortable with the limited options we have for the future. However, we are staying together until one of us feels uncomfortable or is hurting.
Right now it is a very healthy relationship (emotionally, physically, and sexually) so I do not see a problem with this, nor does he.
Does this seem like the right thing to do?
We are very happy and content with the place we are at right now in our relationship, that's why I think it's okay. And we're both on the same page with everything...
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Old Dec 17, 2014, 01:42 AM
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Sounds ok to me as long as you both know where you stand and you both are ready for the changes that may evolve due to the fact that it is temporary for now. He or you could find another person. Are you both ready if that happens?

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Old Dec 17, 2014, 01:46 AM
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Sounds ok to me as long as you both know where you stand and you both are ready for the changes that may evolve due to the fact that it is temporary for now. He or you could find another person. Are you both ready if that happens?

I know that I would be ready, and I think he would be too.
We discussed that a little bit too, and we both said that it would hurt at first and it would be rough, of course, but I do not believe that either of us would dwell or become dreadfully unhealthy due to it.
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