[pinkvilla]

I have a typical heart break love story.Help me decide.

Boy meets girl,says he loves her.Girl is not 100% sure of her feelings or his intentions. So she decides to wait and see.Time passes.They talk like friends and she is slowly falling for him.Then he says he is in love with someone else. Her heart breaks.Now she is mourning a relationship that didn't exist .He is engaged to the other person now. What should the girl do??

So should I confess my love at this point or should I keep quiet?? What would you do? Can't stop crying trying to decide.

[gayleggg]

I think I would just keep it to myself. I don't see that telling him would be of any benefit to you. Mourn for the loss and move on. I know that sounds simplistic but it's the only way I know of to get to the other side.

Boy falls in love to fast feel sad for the other girl he will break her heart when he falls in love with another girl .

I would not tell him , heck I would not trust someone who falls in love that fast , I think that is not love but lust as it will soon pass.

[Bill3]

So should I confess my love at this point or should I keep quiet?

What would happen if you confessed your love?

[pinkvilla]

Originally Posted by Bill3

What would happen if you confessed your love?

I don't know.Maybe he'll come back to me or he'll say he is over me.

Thoughts in my mind:
1.I had my chance and for some reason I wasn't 100% sure. So I blew it.

2.If he moves on so fast ,do I really want him back?

3.If I don't say my love,will I regret it for life??

It's so confusing .On top of it all,he wants to remain friends with me.I just can't handle the thought of seeing him with someone else.

[Rose76]

When you made a decision to go with a "wait and see" approach, I think you made a wise decision. To have moved on as quickly as he did suggests that he was not all that deeply in love with you. You didn't feel secure about his love, and I think you were proven right.

Here is another angle. He may be a guy who just got to a point in his life where he really wants to be married. He may have been ready to get serious with the first girl who would give him the opportunity. He may be more "in love" with the idea of getting married than with either you or the other girl. Time will tell.

I think you have to respect that he has made a commitment to another person and let go of wishing that it was you. He's just not available. If you were to tell him that you loved him and he were to break his engagement, saying he really prefers you to this other person, wouldn't that make you feel pretty insecure about depending on him?

What do you think he means by wanting "to remain friends?" Don't read too much into that. It might mean he just doesn't want there to be ill will between you. That's fine, but it would not be appropriate for you and him to be seeing each other on a one-to-one basis. If he tries to call you or spend time with you, I wouldn't allow that if I were you. Just say that you wish him well, but that you both need to move on.

[hvert]

I would keep it to myself and break off contact until I got over him. It just wasn't meant to be.