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Old Jan 13, 2015, 02:09 PM
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So he was supposed to come over on the weekend. I got up early, got ready then was sat waiting for him for over an hour. So I text him, whatcha doing? He says he can't talk he's at the garage then has to drive home. I'm like you could've told me. Then all of a sudden he's like attacking me out of nowhere saying I've been acting different and not missing him as much, how I'm making him feel bad for something or other. But yet he's the one that is always putting me down, he's always attacking me for not having a job, its Like every time we talk he brings it up and is like your not trying hard enough, your not doing this, you need to do this blah blah blah.
Then he says he needs space cause he's been 'busy'.
I just don't understand why he blew one thing up into something more. I don't get it.
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Old Jan 13, 2015, 03:18 PM
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Sounds like its a very shakey relationship in general on both sides. How long have you been dating ?
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Old Jan 13, 2015, 04:15 PM
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Its really not. We've been together almost 6 months. This is only the third falling out we've had. We've been fine for the past two months.
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Old Jan 13, 2015, 05:12 PM
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Maybe you should both sit down and talk about expectations and how each of you act and react differently.

Might help getting you both on the same page .
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Old Jan 14, 2015, 07:16 PM
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From personal experience, I am at a point, where hearing the expression...'you are making me feel______' raises flags.

Hope you are both able to get through this.

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Old Jan 17, 2015, 05:56 AM
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Yes same question here. How long have you been dating? It seems like a very fickle relationship on both ends.
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