[Shirt1212]

First I would like to thank you for this site, it gives me a place to be honest and express my self.

She called...SHE! My mother! She doesn't even see that she's the problem, she has these insane standards for everyone but herself.

This past summer she was fighting with my step father to the point she asked him to move out. She would call me crying, I would stop what I was doing and talk to her for hours. I had to get stern with her, my sister went to the beach with my dads family, A) because she wanted to go on vaca and B) to give them time alone. My mom focused all of her attention on the disrespect off my sister not listening and on her and going with my dad.... Blah blah blah. I said mom this isn't the problem you need to have a sit down with your husband.

Well nothing changed they still hate each other just my mother as always demands respect for him! It's not a healthy relationship but they won't deal with it. Now her focuse is on me! I'm the bad guy.

I have been keeping limited communication which sounds harsh but it was the last straw she came to visit and after weeks of disprespect of both me and my husband it turned into a fight which turned physical.... I was 9 months pregnant holding my 1 year old. I know I didn't help the matter because I didn't know how to stand up for myself.

Now I just want to tell her off she's always so on the cross, she always has it worse no matter what. Seriously you get a foot of snow she gets 3. She always has to be right she thinks she nice but she isn't. She wants to know why my inlaws don't like her.... Um the first time you met them you came in with an attitude and left early. Then proceeded to tell me how everyone from his 10 yearold cousin to his grandma was creepy or I had to watch out for them..... What! Is this game of thrones? Yeah she insisted his 19 yearold brother was creepy because he was taking family pictures...l he was also a photo major.

She refuses to get along with anyone, she insists that people are out to get her constantly and she lies. About 10 years ago my stepfathers parents house was a wreck, the only way they could get them to do anything for it (they were t hurting for money or anythinb like that just weren't keeping up the house at all, they may be hoarders I don't know) anyways they told them that one of their neighbors called the city and they got a courtacy call because my stepfather works for the city. It worked they cleaned up the house and actually moved into a smaller easier to maintain house. Now when my mom tells the story some one actually did call on them and my stepfather almost lost his job...

I just got off th phone with her and I want to stop her and correct her but I am the only one who is having a problem with her right now. She has done this for years as long as she has one target to focuse in the rest is lovely. My sisters on again off again boyfriend that she has never met is now marriage material, my stepfather she wanted to move out is now getting a retirement/ 50th birthday party, even tho it's so sad please pity us because we have debt (none of which I causes by the way)... But me I'm being controlled by my husband who I hid from her (i didnt) Im keeping my kids from her blah blah blah.

Thank you for the vent I just needed to yell it at the world! Hugs and love thank you <3

[Shirt1212]

Also you should know I don't give into her crap anymore I don't fight and normally don't even take her calls anymore. Thank you guys for all of your support