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Apr 18, 2015, 06:01 PM
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Hi me and this person are talking and such ,He taught me magic and helped me find some on ebay to buy. he is quiet and does not talk to much ,I am quiet too ,anyways I think we are becoming good friends ,the look of it ,but what do you think ? does it sound like it ? also he gave me his number before but we have not text because he says he is busy. and a few weeks ago he said I friendly with people. and I said I like hanging out with him and he said I like hanging out with you too.
Ps I have special needs with low social skills ,please do not judge |
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Apr 18, 2015, 08:52 PM
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Glad to have you post here on Psych Central, detour1. Glad you are joining us here. There are lots of compassionate people here that can make the load lighter by sharing and caring. It is good to have friends but sometimes people think different things about what friends mean. It is good to know what limits you want with friends and make sure the other person knows and agrees. Of course you can't just bring this out all at once but over time you can bring up this in pieces. If you have a good relationship with family they may be can give you a reality check on how good this relationship is for you.
Some people find the forums give them the compassion and empathy they seek. http://forums.psychcentral.com Please feel free to private message me or any of the Community Liaisons by left clicking on the name in blue to the left of their post) for questions or just to share.
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#3
Apr 19, 2015, 01:19 AM
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Great post!
My friends are people who are likeminded just like me. Those that act with honest intent at all times. My friends aren't perfect. I make mistakes too. |
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Apr 19, 2015, 01:45 PM
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Detour1, folks here are pretty accepting of others. I would hope no one here would judge you.
From what you posted it sounds like you and this other person are developing a friendship. How do you define friendship? does your relationship with this person meet that definition? |
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Apr 20, 2015, 10:31 AM
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is this feeling telling me I should not ask him |
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Apr 20, 2015, 05:35 PM
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Detour1, this can be hard, but you'll never know if he would hang out with you if you don't ask. Maybe have a specific plan rather than just asking about "hanging out"?
What makes you think he'll say no? |
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Apr 20, 2015, 05:49 PM
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Apr 20, 2015, 06:14 PM
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If he is quiet and shy he might be waiting for you to ask because he is too shy to ask you.
The very worst that can happen if you ask is that he says "no". That would be disappointing, but not the end of the world. |
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