Forgetting

Should I forget my 11 year friendship cuz my friend hurt me

In my opinion, this depends on 'how much' your friend has hurt you. Is it an issue you can overcome or not?

Hard to make a call there would you mind telling us more helpless?

We have been friends for 11 years in that 11 years we have been throw her. Divorce me finding out I have Bpd living together me helping her by watching her kids to go to school just doing almost everything together but she dates and I hate that she wants space I hate that and lately we just have not been communicating very well she says we will be fine just give it time but it hurts cuz I feel like she doesn't like me anymore so I want to just stop being friends and that what I have always done in the past but she says I have to trust her that we will be friend when things have calmed down and we have some space I feel like leaving cuz trust I have never done before

Helplessday, I am a little confused: is she your ex-wife (you've mentioned divorce)? It sounds like you currently have an interest in dating her but she is not interested and dates others instead. Is this the case?

No she's my best friend she was married then when she left her husband I helped her and I have a big fear of abandonment cuz of my mom that when she dates I feel like there take my place and will just stop caring about me like my mom did to me

Well she may spend less time with you but that doesn't mean she doesn't care. Is there anyone else you could hang out with? You can always talk to us too when they hang out . Also there are things you three could do together. Or if the guy has a guy friend .

I'm starting to get other friends right now and that is helping. As for hanging out with the guy I never do that I will and say things that are hurtful I dint care that injury what ever guy she is seeing but I do not want her mad

Sounds like you have a plan then come back and talk if you need to