[detour1]

Today I felt in the morning he was trying to avoid me , I always see him in the hall that block but he never came down. And I felt maybe he took the other way down. Then I saw him in the hall after and he just said hi to me ,I wanted to say something but I did not know what to say. I had little tears in my eyes. Then we had a meeting to discuss how things been going ,because the school put limits on when we can talk and he says it's been going good.
He said this to me. He goes it's been fun hanging out with you and he appreciate that I am follow the plan and he says he knows it's hard for me to stop talking and give person space. Then after we left the meeting he talked to me again but this what got my confused. Him and i agreed to walk to the next to class. He said he will meet me in the cafe but he never showed up ,he took of without me.
Also I say I am going to miss you thus summer and he goes yeah and says I am goi away this summer.
He does not want me to have lunch with him because he does not want me to be left out when he has lunch with his friends
Not sure if he likes me or not

Right now I feel life is worthless

Btw we are both males

[ManOfConstantSorrow]

Interesting that you feel worthless. Perhaps it is your friend who is not good enough for you as he does not seem to appreciate you.

[detour1]

Originally Posted by ManOfConstantSorrow

Interesting that you feel worthless. Perhaps it is your friend who is not good enough for you as he does not seem to appreciate you.

Hi what should I do then ?

[ManOfConstantSorrow]

Could you perhaps feel a little better about yourself? If you can do that you may find it easier to manage your distress.

[detour1]

Originally Posted by ManOfConstantSorrow

Could you perhaps feel a little better about yourself? If you can do that you may find it easier to manage your distress.

Hi I can try and we had a nice little talk when the bell rang to go home
And at lunch I think he saw me alone he just look over
And after that I have a job to empty the trash , it's voc training class. I went in there and he waved to me. Not sure if he felt bad at lunch or not. He always smiles when I am around.

[BreakForTheLight]

Didn't you post the exact same thing in another topic?

Just out of curiousity.... How old are you? Are you seeing a therapist?

[detour1]

Originally Posted by BreakForTheLight

Didn't you post the exact same thing in another topic?

Just out of curiousity.... How old are you? Are you seeing a therapist?

19 and yes I yes I see one

[Parley]

Originally Posted by detour1

Today I felt in the morning he was trying to avoid me , I always see him in the hall that block but he never came down. And I felt maybe he took the other way down. Then I saw him in the hall after and he just said hi to me ,I wanted to say something but I did not know what to say. I had little tears in my eyes. Then we had a meeting to discuss how things been going ,because the school put limits on when we can talk and he says it's been going good.
He said this to me. He goes it's been fun hanging out with you and he appreciate that I am follow the plan and he says he knows it's hard for me to stop talking and give person space. Then after we left the meeting he talked to me again but this what got my confused. Him and i agreed to walk to the next to class. He said he will meet me in the cafe but he never showed up ,he took of without me.
Also I say I am going to miss you thus summer and he goes yeah and says I am goi away this summer.
He does not want me to have lunch with him because he does not want me to be left out when he has lunch with his friends
Not sure if he likes me or not

Right now I feel life is worthless

Btw we are both males

is this the 15 year old? I'd have a problem with this behavior if I was his mother. I wouldn't appreciate it if he was a she either.

I don't know why the school placed limits on your contact but he appreciates you following the rules. Maybe the rules were put in place so he could be with boys his own age.

I get the impression he likes you as a social contact but you're pressuring for more than he can give.

At 19 a person should have friends that don't require adult supervision to level the playing field. Maybe you can find that at your community center or by taking a few summer classes at your local college this summer.

Best of luck to you.

[detour1]

Hi they did the plan because to tech us limits and person space and when i can talk to him and when i cannot talk to him.