Well this whole ugly thing exploded this weekend...my husbands brother got married and my husband ended up throwing one his "tantrums" in his mother's house, in front of half of his family. He managed to make his brother late for his wedding, called his mother things that would make even the heartiest sailor blush and then got drunk and mean at the reception and rehashed the whole thing once again at 1 am trampling his mothers flower beds and screaming at his grandmother (who has a heart condition no less) so now his mother has told him that if he refuses to get help that she will get a restraining order against him and he will no longer be welcome in her home (hooray for her!) As terrible as it all was it was positive in a way too though because I ended up having a very long conversation with his parents about the entire situation and it kind of got everything out into the open and cleared the air. I just can't deal with this on my own because alot of anger stems from his realtionship with them. Most importantly in my mind though they assured me that no matter what happens they would never try to take my son from me and that while they want my husband and I to be able to work things out they can more than understand why I feel the way I do...I'm so relieved I could cry...I probably will...
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