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May 18, 2007 at 02:38 PM
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hey everybody,
I just feel bad about the idea of me rejecting everybody, especially those who tries to get close to me. I guess I don't to be hurt anymore but I don't want to reject anybody anymore. I want others to be in my life. The thing is, I don't know how to stop this bad habit. I am just posting just to release my concern that I am having now. You don't need to give advice, I just wanted to share this feeling that I am currently having. Thanx for having the time to read this. |
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May 18, 2007 at 02:49 PM
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Thanks for sharing...
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May 18, 2007 at 07:23 PM
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May 18, 2007 at 07:34 PM
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Blackrose, do you have a therapist? I use to push people away without wanting to and seeing a therapist helped me a lot with that.
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May 19, 2007 at 09:03 PM
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Yeah, i do have a therapist but I feel impatient about feeling better.
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May 20, 2007 at 03:10 PM
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I think you will find that a common theme here - impatience - gosh that doesn't even begin to describe what I feel...GRRRRRRRRRR
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May 20, 2007 at 03:44 PM
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(((((((((((((((((hugs i hear you too)))))))))))))))))))
rejection and abandonment trigger me badly. i use to push people as far as i could knowing they'd go in the end anyway, like testing them which is horrible. i think it is all about trust at the end if the day, hope this makes sense, sorry. jinny xoxoxoxo good luck if you do seek help.  love, jinnyann xoxoxoxoxoxo
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May 25, 2007 at 01:08 PM
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i have that same problem really bad.
i get mad over stupid things and when my boyfriend is ready to go or i kick him out, i run after him as soon as he walks out the door and i'm all "wait wait wait! i was just kidding come back!" it won't take much more for me to push him completely out of my life, i'm afraid. you'll trust people when you're ready. i think the more you try forcing yourself into being a person capable of sincerely trusting others, the more you'll doubt yourself and your relationships anyway, and it'll take longer to get the results you want. and i think it also makes it harder to trust as time goes on also. that's how i am anyway. |
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