[90confused]

okay so i have this friend of mine with whom im really close with, he is one of my best friends and i share alot with him. he on the other hand, is a very secretive person. i guess because in life he has met people who have ditched him or played with him and he always feels like playing safe around everyone, although he keeps on saying to me that i am his best friends he does not opens very much up to me.
another thing that he does alot is the "push/pull" thing. like he will text me the whole day and this will continue for weeks and then he will start cutting me off for no particular reason. i initially used to find it very rude but now i give him his space.
he also gets incredibly jealous of my friendship with any other guys which is sort of annoying to me because i have already told him multiple times that he is my best friend and he shouldnt feel insecure.
last week we had a fight, he called a friend of mine handicap when she was experiencing severe sciatica pain. so i told him to mind his tongue around others. he then lashed out that it was a matter between him and her and i need not to interfere. plus he had already apologised with her. but by that time we both had already said alot to each other..next morning i apologised to him but he did not reply back, and he hasnt till now. now he is part of my group and tomorrow we are having a meetup and i just dont want to go and be super uncomfortable..and i really dont know what to do let him have to space or sent him a text again?

[kaliope]

i dont see the harm of sending a text such as "looking forward to seeing you tomorrow" in order to break the ice so tomorrow isnt so uncomfortable.