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I am so upset, I went on this church trip and it seemed like the whole time I was there people were trying to avoid me and exclude me. They moved when I would sit next to them or they would choose other spots over the one next to me. They also took pictures and tried to move their heads to block me out of the picture and when I saw a picture on FB of a group of people sitting eating lunch and I had been cut off except for my hand. Like they cut me out of the picture. Also I was in a room one night with one group of people but then because of a room mixup where we were double booked in our hotel, we had to switch rooms around. I was the only one out of my room asked to go to another room. Why me?? Do they think Im a lesbian? The reason I think this is them asking to have me move hotel rooms on the second night. (This was a new hotel) How on earth would I go about finding out if they think this?
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it really sucks when people are being exclusionary. who knows their reasons besides being jealous. when i was young in the girls scouts i remembr feeling excluded from the group. i cant think of anything i did that made the girls treat me like that but i remember it to this day. i wish i would have been brave enough to go up and ask them if there was a reason, when the program was supposed to be promoting friendship, that they were so unkind. if nothing else, it would have made me feel better for standing up for myself.
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If this is a church thing go to the person in charge and ask what is going on. It's not fair that you are being treated like this.
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