[Only_Human1983]

I stupidly went on Facebook and saw my ex when he was in Florida a week ago with his arm around this girl that I think he's seeing. He has a place out there and she lives over there, but he lives here in the UK, so it's not the basis for a great relationship, but it just hurts as friends had commented on what a cute couple they looked etc. the hardest part is that he was texting me two weeks ago saying he'd realised that I was the only he could ever settle down with and that we are special etc I know everybody will tell me to forget him as we've have had an on and off relationship for 4 years, but it's hard to let go when you love someone and even harder to think they've found someone better than you. I'm trying online dating and to find someone new, but it just doesn't seem to be working and I'm just feeling worse and worse about myself. People say that I'm very attractive and have everything going for me, but if that's the case then why do I feel this way?? I really feel like I'm dying inside and everybody is just getting on with their lives. I just feel like giving up

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[Trippin2.0]

When we're sad and lonely, we look back at the past through tinted goggles.


We remember all the good things, how great it felt to be wanted, how comforting it felt to be held, all the jokes and laughter shared... But that's not the entire picture is it? Its never all sunshine and roses in reality.


Don't get nostalgic for disaster, remind yourself that there was a reason you broke up, because that reason is still very much valid.


Your life isn't over or at a standstill because your relationship ended. And if it is, its because you have decided it is so.

Block Facebook and stop comparing. You are unique and he's rebounding. I recommend no contact for 30 days minimum, take your power back and visit exboyfriendrecovery.