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Grand Magnate
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Aug 31, 2015 at 04:50 PM
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You know how people start to cause drama for no real reason? It honestly blows my mind.
Like... what is the purpose? Why spend so much energy simply trying to be mean to someone? Or to spread rumours about someone? I honestly don't get what goes through people's minds sometimes. How does it help the individual who is trying to start s***? Especially when everyone else who knows both parties is well aware of the fact that the sh**disturber is talking s***? It rather makes me laugh. I can be quite sensitive in a lot of ways, but when someone is just being nasty for the sake of it... well... it makes me laugh. Why spend so much time just hating someone/something? Online or offline, I honestly just don't get it. __________________ "The time has come, the Walrus said, to talk of many things. Of shoes, of ships, of sealing wax, of cabbages, of kings! Of why the sea is boiling hot, of whether pigs have wings..." "I have a problem with low self-esteem. Which is really ridiculous when you consider how amazing I am. |
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Legendary
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Aug 31, 2015 at 05:02 PM
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Maybe they feed off of negativity, and when there's none they create it.
Maybe some people just like the idea of living on the Jerry Springer show... Idk, I find such people aggravating and pathetic. I just steer clear. __________________  DXD BP1, BPD & OCPD  "The best way to make it through with hearts and wrists in tact, is to realise, two out of three aint bad" FOB...
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Legendary Wise Elder
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Aug 31, 2015 at 05:05 PM
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 Yes This! Have wondered this many times.I don't get it either.. I think it probably boils down to someone is unhappy in their life and want to drag people down with them. __________________ Helping others gets me out of my own head ~ |
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Perpetually Pondering
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Aug 31, 2015 at 10:25 PM
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Don't get it, either.
I've family of origin to turn to, if I want drama. Well, one side, that is. I'd rather avoid it[drama ] all together, if I can. |
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Location: US
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Aug 31, 2015 at 10:51 PM
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Some people are drown to drama maybe because that's all they know and it's familiar and they just need it. Could be also some type of disorder that makes them seek drama
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Elder
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Aug 31, 2015 at 10:57 PM
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Those kind of people kind of make me laugh, at least until they try to drag me into it...then that's a sign for me to move on from that situation.
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Sep 01, 2015 at 05:24 AM
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I think perhaps they create drama because they like the attention.
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Sep 01, 2015 at 05:55 AM
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