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Jun 08, 2007 at 09:00 PM
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your deed is on file at the county courthouse. get a copy of it. you need to show your signature is on that.
do you have a camera downstairs? if so, start photographing what you consider your possessions......photograph the entire rooms, so it will show what is in place. (i read lots of true crime books  )look through drawers, documents that you MIGHT need.....hide them in your purse. call every relative that might know the details of how the house was purchased and get them to write their recollections down and have them note: "per telephone conversation with Jane" and the date and time they did this......and getting the statements notarized won't hurt your case. document the income you've made and what he has contributed. try to relax and put yourself back to the place you were when you last saw the firebox. take your time.....go through that day in your head...... xoxoxo pat p.s. no fee for all this advice 
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Grand Magnate
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Jun 08, 2007 at 11:14 PM
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Husband thinks this place is great, b/c there are no people around. He likes being the "Lord" of 18 acres. He likes having everyone in our small town think he's great!!! He's looking rich on my money. He loves driving his tractor. He loves owning a pick-up truck, and hauling water. I think he would only start to care about our relationship, if he saw his lifestyle slipping away. I think I have dropped to the bottom of his list, under the land and the horses. EJ 
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Jun 09, 2007 at 06:09 AM
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Hi EJ,
I can't think right now, but I wanted you to know that you are so in my thoughts. Perhaps think about what will make you happy and then see if those things are attainable within your given situation and then go from there. Best wishes, Songbird __________________  "It is good to have an end to journey toward, but it is the journey that matters in the end.
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Grand Magnate
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Jun 09, 2007 at 08:22 AM
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Songbird,
Thanks for your note of support! I hope you're feeling better soon. EJ |
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Jun 11, 2007 at 12:41 AM
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Sad to say it, but being isolated was probably one of the reasons my mom divorced my dad way back when. He owned a farm, middle of nowhere - and she was left isolated, it not being her decision.  I'm sorry about your ankle and your husband. If I could, I'd come and visit and straighten him out for you.  sorry, i'm not very useful - but I'm sad to see my friend hurting like this. __________________ 
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Jun 11, 2007 at 07:08 AM
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i hope you and husband could figure everything out.......it must be very hard....to have all these animals u didnt want then to get hurt.......to move to a place your not happy with.ect.ect.if u need someone im a good listener.tc
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Jun 11, 2007 at 08:47 AM
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EJ - just wanted to double check your last response to me - are these things he said or perceptions from you or a combination of both...
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Jun 11, 2007 at 09:04 AM
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I'm just a pm away if you want to vent  Hugssssss J |
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