[muffinhead]

I've posted this here as well in the Aspie/Autism thread to see if I can get both AS/Neurotypical opinions

Note: for those who are interested in this topic that don't know what I'm talking about, read the thread titled "complicated relationship" in the Autism thread.

Soon after that night I spent with that girl, it became apparent that I was obsessing about it. This came to a head, and the girl and I had a conversation about it. She said I couldn't see her every day, as she's really busy, so I proposed a once a month meeting day when we could spend quality time together.

Fast forward a month, and I go to have that time with her. We talk for a couple of hours about meaningful topics, and then she begins to initiate intimacy with me. She mentions that she "doesn't care" if everyone knows what is going on between us, and also says that she can't control her "emotional and physical attraction to me." She also mentions feeling "alone." So we kiss for some time, and then she cuts it short and makes me leave.

It is very unclear to me if I am being played, or if there is some external force that is keeping her from escalating things with me. There is, without a shadow of a doubt, an emotional connection between us. Whether this is a romantic relationship being forced into friendship, or never a romantic relationship in the first place, I have no clue.

Someone please give some sage advice for this troubling issue.

[ChipperMonkey]

I think that you should stay away from this girl! One, she's your RA so she shouldn't be getting involved with you. (i.e. she's in a position of power over you.) And two, its odd that she'd come on to you so strongly and then just cut things short and kicks you out.