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Old Jan 15, 2016, 01:15 AM
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All of a sudden I got a notification from a guy I am,well,was friends with. He's actually the guy I liked while the guy I have recently posted about first liked me. I am now over this guy,and have has my mind on the guy i posted about. He tagged me in a pic. At first,I was nervous why he would do that and thought maybe he was going through old pics,but it's a pic i'm not even in? So,i figured ok,he's drunk and tagged me on accident. It's a pic of him and a girl. She's not a very attractive girl but it looks like one of those crazy party pics.I seen in my feed after that,without clicking on his page that this girl seems like she is in more of his pics kissing him and all over him. They are travel pics.He's one of those guys who liked me and we kissed,then he felt rejected when I didn't show up to something after and since then the friendship kind of went away. I'm sure people accidentally tag people all the time but it's kind of weird,and the tag still hasn't been removed even though it's been an hour. I'd think if someone mistagged they'd notice quickly?

I had a female friend do this to me before.She tagged me in a bunch of her vacation pics. Just me. Like I was there with her.At first I thought it was an accident but then she did it again. The tags also never got removed. I told a friend or two about it,and they think she did it to make me jealous.

Do people really do things like this? Or,do people really mistag from time to time? Maybe the tag will go away.

On one hand i can't picture him playing games like this and think it's just an accident,but he has played other games before so i don't know. I was the only one tagged in the pic as if it was a mistag. Unless she has my first name? Idk. I'm not going out of my way to check out his page and find out. Maybe he's done this before and i just don't remember.

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Old Jan 15, 2016, 03:29 AM
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You can always untag yourself. Even if he did it on purpose to hurt you more - what's the difference? Forget about him and move on.
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Old Jan 15, 2016, 03:42 AM
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You can always untag yourself. Even if he did it on purpose to hurt you more - what's the difference? Forget about him and move on.
No,i am acting like i dont notice or care. I noticed a name that must be the girl's was now added to it but mine is still there. It must be an accident.
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Old Jan 15, 2016, 03:56 AM
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Why don't you untag yourself then? You don't want her picture on your profile do you?
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Old Jan 15, 2016, 04:34 AM
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Why don't you untag yourself then? You don't want her picture on your profile do you?
Oh,my pics are on tag review. So nothing shows up unless i approve it. I just get the notifications. What i'll do is just x it out in tag review so it doesn't show up in profile or newsfeed but my name will still be on it,because i don't care and i find it funny.Wasn't my error.
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Old Jan 15, 2016, 05:16 AM
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No one here can tell you why he did that. if you want to know, ask him. If you don't want to ask him, let it go. Over analysing and starting a hundred topics will not give you any answers.
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Old Jan 15, 2016, 05:46 AM
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My therapist says it's pointless and a waste of time to try finding out why people do what they do. You can only figure out why you do what you do. I agree.

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Old Jan 15, 2016, 02:42 PM
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May be he did it in purpose, may be not. If he is with another girl, and you like another guy, then I suggest to ignore it and move on. I know people are curious about what is happening around them, but some curiosity is harmful to our feelings and thoughts. If he was a friend, and no longer so, why do you keep him in your "Friends" list? I am assuming that he cannot tag you if he is not a "friend". It is just a suggestion if he bothers you.
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Old Jan 15, 2016, 05:02 PM
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My therapist says it's pointless and a waste of time to try finding out why people do what they do. You can only figure out why you do what you do. I agree.

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Yeah,it is. I tend to overanalyze. I still think it's kind of weird. The tag is still there. But,idc.
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