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Old Jan 14, 2016, 10:22 PM
Jax Teller Jax Teller is offline
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Okay this is very hard for me to write because I have not told one person any of this. When I say she doesn't know I exist I mean literally she doesn't know my name or face. This all started 2 years ago one day I was talking to a old teacher of mine who I was close to and he introduced me to her because she was a guy I talked to all the time sister I completely fell in love at first sight I thought she was so beautiful I thought about her all day long. So when I get home I looked her up on google. And here's were I'm going to sound like a total creep I found her twitter and bookmarked it I know it's weird but it gave me closure. It made me fall in love harder I loved everything about her. Her face, her personality I thought or think she is perfect. But I know she could never love a socially awkward ugly loser like me and there's no way she'd remember meeting me that day two years ago. What I'm thinking of doing is creating a twitter with a fake name and telling her a exactly how I feel. what I'm worried about is if I do this I would get in trouble with the law because she might think I'm a ted bundy type. The reason I'm using a fake name is because I don't want her to know it's me I know I have know chance with here I guess I just want to let her know how I feel I mean should I do this I just have no clue what to do I can't get her off my mind and it's driving me crazy. I know I wrote alot but I just couldn't keep this bottled up anymore I feel like a total creep

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Old Jan 15, 2016, 05:20 AM
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Hello,

Well, let me start by saying that I fell in love many times before. I know how it is.

Long ago when I was a teenager, the Internet didn't exist and in situations like yours, people either would go over and tell the girl up front, or forget about it. Well, I was fat, had my face taken over by acne, but still, that didn't stop me wanting to talk to the girls...

Push aside all your self-defeating thoughts; it's not how you think you look, it's really how you handle yourself. So be brave and get this over with. What could possibly go wrong? Being rejected? Well, that's part of life.

Forget social media, speak to this girl as yourself, say "hi", take it slowly, don't rush into saying that you "love her" and things like that, see how it goes with the conversation.

And be prepared for the prospect of a "not so favourable" outcome, and be ready to deal with it. Life is made is made of trial and error, and everyone needs to experience those things.

Good luck!
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Old Jan 15, 2016, 05:34 AM
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Don't make fake profiles. I would start talking to a girl politely as a friend at first. And honestly you cannot love someone you don't really know, it's more like infatuation that could grow into something. Take it slow. Please don't call yourself ugly and many women don't even care about looks, I don't.

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