[In4ra3d]

Me and my girlfriend are in a relationship for over 3 years now, *we both are 22. *In December 2014 she was visited by her cousin who is from Saudi Arabia and had never came to India before. They spent around 2 months in my girlfriend's Delhi home and meanwhile they both got really close and they became really good friends. After she went back to Saudi Arabia she told my girlfriend that she is in love with her and that she is a homosexual. When my girlfriend told me about that I asked her to stop all form of communication with her but my girlfriend didn't was her friend and she knew that her cousin was alone in Saudi Arabia citing reasons that her cousin had a very tough life and she was the only who her cousin could reach out to. *In November 2015 her cousins came for a marriage, meanwhile they became really close emotionally and once when. Her cousin cried in front of her she kissed her on the lips. *Later she felt very guilty and told me the in the morning that she did it just to comfort her. *Howsoever awkwara it might sound I didn't mind much, the night before her cousin was supposed to leave for Saudi, * her cousin tried to kiss her forcibly and my girlfriend stop her from doing that but let her cousin molest her nonetheless and told me at 4am in the morning that she felt deeply hurt. In the morning her cousin apologized to my girlfriend and told her that she did it to intentionally to make my girl hate her. *Later in the day she jumped out of the window and was dangling with just one leg stuck in the window, *sheet attempted suicide! *My girlfriend was very depressed about the whole incident and she looked really scared for almost a week. A month later, *her cousin came back to India, *this time on the pretext of psychotherapy and is currently under therapy. *I warned my girlfriend to stay away from her but she tells me she feels very sorry for her cousin and she feels she is responsible for her plight. *I keep on making her see that its not her fault but she is scared that her cousin might harm herself. *Her cousin keeps on asking questions like "Don't you care about me!? " "Doesn't it matter to you if I cry? "

I tell my girlfriend to never show any affection for her howsoever sympathetic she might feel but my girlfriend doesn't listen. Once every week I get to hear her rant about the same old questions about guilt for kissing her and her fear of her cousins suicidal tendencies. Every few days we are back on the topic of whether she should talk to her or not. *Moreover her cousin is also very jealous about the fact my girlfriend and I are still in a relationship even after this dilemma. *

​Me and my girlfriend are in a relationship for over 3 years now, *we both are 22. *In December 2014 she was visited by her cousin who is from Saudi Arabia and had never came to India before. They spent around 2 months in my girlfriend's Delhi home and meanwhile they both got really close and they became really good friends. After she went back to Saudi Arabia she told my girlfriend that she is in love with her and that she is a homosexual. When my girlfriend told me about that I asked her to stop all form of communication with her but my girlfriend didn't was her friend and she knew that her cousin was alone in Saudi Arabia citing reasons that her cousin had a very tough life and she was the only who her cousin could reach out to. *In November 2015 her cousins came for a marriage, meanwhile they became really close emotionally and once when. Her cousin cried in front of her she kissed her on the lips. *Later she felt very guilty and told me the in the morning that she did it just to comfort her. *Howsoever awkwara it might sound I didn't mind much, the night before her cousin was supposed to leave for Saudi, * her cousin tried to kiss her forcibly and my girlfriend stop her from doing that but let her cousin molest her nonetheless and told me at 4am in the morning that she felt deeply hurt. In the morning her cousin apologized to my girlfriend and told her that she did it to intentionally to make my girl hate her. *Later in the day she jumped out of the window and was dangling with just one leg stuck in the window, *sheet attempted suicide! *My girlfriend was very depressed about the whole incident and she looked really scared for almost a week. A month later, *her cousin came back to India, *this time on the pretext of psychotherapy and is currently under therapy. *I warned my girlfriend to stay away from her but she tells me she feels very sorry for her cousin and she feels she is responsible for her plight. *I keep on making her see that its not her fault but she is scared that her cousin might harm herself. *Her cousin keeps on asking questions like "Don't you care about me!? " "Doesn't it matter to you if I cry? "

I tell my girlfriend to never show any affection for her howsoever sympathetic she might feel but my girlfriend doesn't listen. Once every week I get to hear her rant about the same old questions about guilt for kissing her and her fear of her cousins suicidal tendencies. Every few days we are back on the topic of whether she should talk to her or not. *Moreover her cousin is also very jealous about the fact my girlfriend and I are still in a relationship even after this dilemma. *

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This is an excerpt from the chat between her cousin and my girlfriend.*

[2/10, 10:22 PM] Khan: You asked me what you benefitted from it, did u ever think what I lost? How much I lost? I even lost something I never had because you made me believe maybe I had it. Even then I never demanded anything of you, not before nor after. Look at what has become of me. You still have halim. He has you. isnt it better to not have something ever than to have it and have it taken away? I never even asked for it. You tell me why you wanted to comfort me when I said no?? How many times did I say no
[2/10, 10:22 PM] Khan: And those things meant nothing to you
[2/10, 10:22 PM] Khan: I'll believe what you said. It was to comfort me. Failure of a plan.
[2/10, 10:22 PM] Khan: You did take things from me whether or not the benefitted you
[2/10, 10:22 PM] Khan: Its a good thing you two can move on. Be happy. It will just take longer for me
[2/10, 10:22 PM] Khan: I was the only one who lost anything



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This is an excerpt from the chat between her cousin and my girlfriend.*

[divine1966]

I don't think it's a good idea to post your girlfriends communication here. It violated her privacy. It's wise to delete it

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