[Jenn1fer82]

Is it possible to go back to just having a relationship without having sex? I've dated him for some time now and I feel that we've rushed things and I want things to slow. I really like him and feel comfortable with him but still I believe that we've really rushed things. We had sex out of impluse and its already happened twice and I don't know how its going to stop both of us to from having sex out of impluse again.

[asylumgardens]

You should try talking to him about it. Such conversations might be difficult, but there's no other way to stop it. If you wait until one of those impulse times and are like 'no stop' he could take it a personal insult, so you should talk about it in a non-sexual time and explain to him how you feel that you like him, etc., but just want to go slow.

[dottie]

Once you get that far...I believe there is no going back.-dottie

[Wants2Fly]

You can try to have an honest conversation and see what happens. I tend to think that this is a genie who isn't go easily back into the bottle.

I had a friend who changed her religious perspective and stopped having intimate relations with a man she'd been with for a few years. He was understandably angry.

She said no sex without marriage, so he even asked her to marry him -- and she turned him down. So he broke up with her.

[Direction]

I don't think it is realistic that you will be able to backwards...probably more like ending it...I saw the other post...it doesn't sound like he respect your wishes...which adds another notch to the situation...