[Raindropvampire]

If I have to listen to my cousin's BF tell me one more time that I don't like him because I'm racist and we are having a cultural misunderstanding.....I'm going to launch him into space.

Listen douchenozzle I don't like you because you hit my cousin. I don't like you because you told me a woman NEEDS a man and children to take care of so she stays busy and out of trouble. That women are like kids and need regular discipline or they get mouthy. I don't like you because you kick your dog around. I don't like you because you are rude, crude and social unacceptable on ALL FLIPPING LEVELS!!! It's not racial it's not cultural you are a freaking PUTZ OF THE HIGHEST ORDER!!!!!

OMG I just want to bash his freaking face in every freaking time he opens his mouth I HATE HIM SO MUCH for so many many reasons but race and culture not even a blip on the radar

Freaking call me at 4:30 in the morning telling me I HAVE to stop by in the morning I don't HAVE to do crap!

[Trippin2.0]

Wow, what a piece of shyt, *ahem I mean work.


I'm sorry you have to deal with this turdsack, idk how you manage to not say all these things to him that you just posted, and then some.


I know I would struggle keeping my mouth shut in this douchetard's presence.


Amazing you are RDV.


PS. I hope your cousin is ok, well as ok as can be under the circumstances.

[JustJenny]

Why is she staying with that guy? It makes me sick to think about a guy who kicks a dog, not to mention his views on women...

[divine1966]

What a horrible man!!!!!

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[lavendersage]

Was this guy born in the early 1800's and time transported to now? I know that I shouldn't be, but I hear things like this now and again and I'm just floored that there are still people walking around with those turd thoughts in their turd-filled heads.

Calling you at 4:30am ALONE qualifies them for supreme douchebaggery IMO.

[Raindropvampire]

Originally Posted by Trippin2.0

Wow, what a piece of shyt, *ahem I mean work.


I'm sorry you have to deal with this turdsack, idk how you manage to not say all these things to him that you just posted, and then some.


I know I would struggle keeping my mouth shut in this douchetard's presence.


Amazing you are RDV.


PS. I hope your cousin is ok, well as ok as can be under the circumstances.

Oh he got a little taste when he called which is why he felt the need to tell me (yet again) that I'm racist and I have no respect for his culture. Yes he's a different race but I couldn't give a crap about that. I hate him because he's an abusive, archaic SCHMUCK!!!!!! And the culture thing it's his religion. Since I'm not christian and tend to be pagan I don't have any respect for his "culture". Ya know I grew up christian and don't EVER remember anyone around me spouting such misogynistic bullcrap! but he's all like "it's there in the old testament blah blah blah"

And as for her being alright meh I've given up on that. Since she was a kid this is the type of schmuck she's chosen to date. Her mom has tried interventions, calling CPS, counseling, crying, yelling until she was blue in the face, cutting her off and none of it has made a difference. I hate it and I don't agree with her chocies but I leave communication open so whatever abusive dillwad she's with doesn't isolate her and her kids. I babysit when I can or just take them for a day so they have a chance to have healthier interpersonal relationships and so they can talk/vent and have someone listen. it's just a cluster**** and it has been since she started dating

I do have to say out of all the arses she's dated he takes the cake. Right now I'm back to doing the med-go-round trying to find something that works. So my temper has been up and down sooner or later I'm gonna lay that putz out

[Raindropvampire]

Originally Posted by JustJenny

Why is she staying with that guy? It makes me sick to think about a guy who kicks a dog, not to mention his views on women...

If she wasn't with him she'd just find some other abusive idiot. Her first BF put her in the hospital when she was 15 BUT it showed how passionate he was and how much he cared about her(her words) and that's the type she's chosen ever since. If she dates a decent guy she dumps them in about two weeks because they are boring and there's no passion.

[Raindropvampire]

Originally Posted by lavendersage

Was this guy born in the early 1800's and time transported to now? I know that I shouldn't be, but I hear things like this now and again and I'm just floored that there are still people walking around with those turd thoughts in their turd-filled heads.

Calling you at 4:30am ALONE qualifies them for supreme douchebaggery IMO.

I really don't mind the time he called because I work thirds so he caught me at work. BUT telling me I HAVE to stop by in the morning because he needs a ride. HELL NO!!! I don't have to squato for that schmuck. IF my cousin needed something MAYBE but to me I HAVE to do ANYTHING for him??

Originally Posted by Raindropvampire

If I have to listen to my cousin's BF tell me one more time that I don't like him because I'm racist and we are having a cultural misunderstanding.....I'm going to launch him into space.

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That last part made me laugh. Kick him to outer space. But seriously, stay away from him. He sounds potentially dangerous. Your cousin accepts him. This isn't your problem. Don't argue with him. He sounds like one of those religious people who use the bible to control others. Ignore him.

[Chyialee]

OMFG Raindrop -- @#$!*&#!!#?! Wow.

Talk about totally inappropriately playing the race/religion/ethnicity/cultural identity cards. Hon, I feel for you so much. Your cousin as well, in a different way tho. She obvs has somehow been imprinted to attract and accept abusive shytheads, and that's a pattern she'll have to break on her own initiative -- or not sigh.

HOWEVER: Next time a$$hole tries to hammer home some Old Testament his-version-of-truth, I'd be tempted to get all Old-Testament "an eye for an eye" on his worthless behind. :grrrr: Um sorry, that wasn't helpful.....

Yeah, as Nick said above, you know that he's an obvs control freak. Perhaps you might like to tell him the same thing I told an African exchange student when I was at a small University in Virginia: "Yup, you're absolutely right. I AM prejudiced: I have a real, deeply ingrained prejudice against A$$HOLES!" (This after I turned him down for dates multiple times. he was a total jerk & had pulled this ploy on numerous ppl)

Unfortunately for the rest of the Universe, People who simply use their particular religion/gender/ethnicity/colour/disability/whatever else, as a bludgeon to intimidate & undermine other folk, are doing everyone a huge disservice. They're stacking the deck -- otherwise known as cheating -- so that they won't have to observe the same standards of reasonable & lawful behaviour demanded of a civil society.

Unfortunately for all of us, it often has the desired effect -- AND THAT my friends, is abusive in teh extreme, imo. It makes me nutz(er), if you can't tell -- and iit seems that ppl are encountering this kind of ugly more & more. Ugh .
Kudos to you for not kowtowing to this P.O.S. excuse for a human. Proud of you!

Those poor kids.

Hugs,
Chyia, Ranting too! :steam coming out of ears: