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Old May 01, 2016, 10:56 AM
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My brothers gf told me today that they had a row when he was drunk and he said that he's seeing someone else but then took it back as he said it to get a reaction.

However, I've seen that my brother has a dating profile on an online dating site and i saw this in the last 6 months.

That have a young baby together and are planning to marry next year.

I really don't know what to do

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Old May 01, 2016, 11:22 AM
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Have you talked with him about this?
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Old May 01, 2016, 11:26 AM
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No I haven't. I don't know if I feel comfortable doing it as we're not close but he'd probably deny it
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Old May 01, 2016, 12:47 PM
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Are you close to his GF? I would try anyway. Just let him know that you know.

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Old May 01, 2016, 01:04 PM
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Certainly she needs to know he is dating other people.

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Old May 01, 2016, 05:23 PM
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I'm not sure how to go about mentioning it an if I should say to him or her?
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Old May 01, 2016, 06:05 PM
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Id first ask him about his dating profile that you saw.

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Old May 01, 2016, 06:12 PM
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Yes I was thinking of doing that but not sure where to go from there. I don't want to fall out with my brother and feel in the middle of if now
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Old May 01, 2016, 06:35 PM
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I'd ask him maybe? Not like accusing but play dumb like oh I saw you are dating so are you leaving so and so etc

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Old May 01, 2016, 06:35 PM
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You don't know for sure that he is seeing another woman. You saw a profile some time in the last 6 months. He said he was seeing another woman but then said he wasn't. Who knows what goes on in private between couples.? Maybe they had a huge row and in spite he went on a dating site. Maybe she did too. Who knows? Without more proof you are just guessing and that can be dangerous.
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Old May 01, 2016, 09:33 PM
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That's a good point. I misunderstood that she kept seeing his profile for the duration of 6 months which is a long time.

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Better to just keep out of it.
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