[Monokuma]

I was in relationship with my ex gf for 4 months. To be honest i was not really into her but then love growing by the time. We broke up right after she found me cheated on her when our relationship still very early. I did flirting, sexting even phonesex with some girls. Then She checked old conversation on my phone, also she knew one girl i was flirting with. That was checkmate but i didn't try to hide it. I told her everything i was not into her before but it changed already. She got really mad then broke our relationship. I really regret what i did, i lost her when i finally had my love for her. I told her i deleted those random girls number, decided to stop chatting with them since our first monthsary.. I tried to call my ex, telling her how sorry i am, begging for her forgiveness and second chance, promise her it won't happen again but she is just keeping her distance from me.. I admit i screwed up so bad, i gave her time but she barely responds.. Is there any way i could take her back? **** i really hate myself because of this..

[Skeezyks]

Hello Monokuma: Well... from what you wrote... it sounds like you've apologized. From my perspective, I doubt there's anything you can do to make her change her mind. And continuing to try to get her to do so runs the risk of alienating her further still. My thinking with regard to this would be that the best you can do would be to simply wait & see what happens.

Assuming that you really want her back, let her know that you're there if-&-when she changes her mind. Perhaps send her an occasional text message, e-mail or card so that she doesn't forget you altogether. But continuing to actively pursue her may simply drive her further way. Oh... & stay away from the flirting, sexting & phone sex! You promised not to do it any more. So it's important to be true to your word.

[Trippin2.0]

Why'd you do it?


I mean I understand not being into someone, but then you dump them, not cheat.


I can't wrap my head around your actions....


Ps. Stop pushing, give her time and space. Maybe she'll eventually at least hear you out.

[~Christina]

Use this as a HUGE teaching lesson in life.. Don't cheat, ever.

If your really not into someone then for goodness sake stay single.

[Steiner of Thule]

Sometimes you don't realize you have love for someone until they are gone. Not the fact that she broke it off and then you realized; more like you probably realized once she broke it off.

Though no I think you are better off trying with someone else. If the girl you were cheating with knew you were with someone else I would dump her too.

I don't know if she will forgive you. You lied to her. It may be impossible for her to forget that.

[Artchic528]

I agree with Steiner of Thule on this one. You should move on and take this as a learning experience.

[divine1966]

If you aren't into someone then why date them? Makes no sense. I wouldn't forgive cheating. People who cheat cannot be trusted.

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[s4ndm4n2006]

Cheating is like one of the worst betrayals in a dating or otherwise romantic relationship. Since trust is something of a foundational principle in a relationship, breaking that is nearly impossible to fix.