[black-roses]

I was talking about dating in general and i think i know why i find guys that dont care because when there is a guy that cares i wanna push him away and think he is a creepy clinger.

HIM: "He's trying so hard to make you laugh/flatter you
meh"

ME: well i dont really care as you can see
its actually bothersome that a guy would go through that kind of effort for me
like eww
back off clinger
such a ****ing clinger
Chat conversation end

[Yismymindblank12]

Originally Posted by black-roses

I was talking about dating in general and i think i know why i find guys that dont care because when there is a guy that cares i wanna push him away and think he is a creepy clinger.

HIM: "He's trying so hard to make you laugh/flatter you
meh"

ME: well i dont really care as you can see
its actually bothersome that a guy would go through that kind of effort for me
like eww
back off clinger
such a ****ing clinger
Chat conversation end

See I have read your posts before I find myself in your shoes. I do welcome new people, but I find myself running into girls similar to you. That will ignore me and just not validate any of my feelings, but I always cut them off at that point. Like the girls I find just rather find someone else other than me.
It's so much so I really feel like I can never take any of her words seriously ever. Like not care of she loves me or not.

Just move on before she has the satisfaction to dumping me off.
It's like I can't have any emotions no happiness sadness whatever just always someone who finds a use for me like some tool or accessory to their inflated ego.

[black-roses]

I am like this because I feel like they want me for a use and so i dont see the point of dating anyone and i let them stay as friends

[divine1966]

I think until you learn other skills you shouldn't worry about dating. You are young and have a lot to learn

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[black-roses]

I don't even know where to begin with learning because my psychologist is concerned with my social isolation and I have been talking to a boy and he's been teaching me how to communicate to others and not freak out as much with guys. He told me that people don't care what you say as long as you stand up for yourself and if it feels to awkward then you need to tell them how you feel because usually I don't I am very vague about feelings

[divine1966]

By other skills I meant not dating skills but life skills like working paying bills cleaning taking care of basic stuff by yourself. Until all that I don't think you'd find decent guy to date. Ask your psychologist to help you with all this

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[black-roses]

I know how to pay bills I am going to pay one tomorrow

[divine1966]

You said you don't work don't know how to do laundry can't clean after yourself etc etc you want to live by yourself but you neither work nor take care of yourself. That's what I am saying, I understand is hard but please seek help from professionals how to transition into adulthood. I don't understand focusing on men and dating at this stage of your life

How do you pay bills if you don't work?


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[black-roses]

I have centrelink

[black-roses]

and that is exactly what my psychologist is working on transiting me into adulthood