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May 24, 2016, 11:49 PM
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I just wanna say my mother is a liar for years she said I couldnt take care of myself without her. She is wrong I have been to hostels I have cooked my own meals went to my own school. The only thing I did wrong is I had poor hygiene and mixed my dirty clothes with my clean clothes. To say I can't take care of myself because of that is a BIG FAT LIE and you could wonder why I am so angry at her for letting her into my head over one mistake. Let her make me think I can't take care of myself for that let myself return just because she thinks I can't. She may think I can't take care of myself she is wrong. So wrong these mistake everyone makes when they are finding there feet to deny me the chance to find and make my own mistakes is dehumanizing I am so angry because she wouldn't let me based on her own insecurities and fears. I am not her fears and insecurities I am my own person and when I say I can make my own money, clean my own house and clothes, take care of my taxs resumes, school, transport etc I am not lying. I mean it when I say that I want that independence I mean it when I say I can take care of myself to let her stop me when I am ready to fly is a betrayal to myself and my strengths. To let myself believe her lies to let her get in my head is wrong and unfair to myself. I will always have critics to let them take anyway my beliefs, my thoughts my feelings of myself and emboding theres is a betrayal of my rights, my feelings and my boundaries. No longer will I let myself play the victim I had a choice all a long and I refuse to ever believe what naysayers say about me ever again!!!
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May 25, 2016, 01:23 AM
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It's good that you can see how you are able to take control of your own life.
Focus on moving out of her home and having your own place. 
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May 25, 2016, 03:37 AM
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Then prove her wrong.
Move out, get a job, pay your own bills, do your own washing etc. Then you can stop worrying about this. |
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May 25, 2016, 08:27 AM
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Move out and don't worry she says you aren't ready
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May 25, 2016, 04:36 PM
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I agree, move out as soon as possible.
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May 26, 2016, 11:09 AM
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I think your thread title is enough. You don't have to prove it to her or anyone by moving out. I moved out but I still retained my mother's beliefs about myself. I wasn't free of her negativity until she died. It's great that you are realizing the situation and working on it at this young age. It will take time. It's like you have to develop a whole new stronger sense of yourself. We can see you growing in your posts!
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May 26, 2016, 04:08 PM
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I agree that you should move out (assuming you're of age). Prove her wrong and take care of your own life.
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