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#1
May 05, 2016, 08:15 AM
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Good morning
I am having a hard time getting over feelings i have for a guy thats married . although nothing physical happened ( i stopped things before then) there was still flirting and emotions involved. ........but even that i know is wrong. He started it. We no longer communicate and are staying away from each other because i know and i think he knows we can never have a relationship while he is married ..it would be a lot easier if he would have left things on strictly platonic because it just intensified things i also know he disrespected his wife and me by putting me in the middle of his marriage ...life is so unfair and i feel he could be right for me if he wasnt tied down..just wish i could get him out of my head its makes it hard when i see him around .and i just stirs up things all over again |
 Bill3
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#2
May 05, 2016, 08:17 AM
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Well, in my experience, if he's willing to cheat on his wife, he's willing to cheat on anyone. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Stay far FAR away from this scumbag.
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#3
May 05, 2016, 10:51 AM
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(((((ozzycat)))))
Keep up the good work of staying away from him! Is it possible to arrange things so that you see him less, or not at all, at work? |
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May 12, 2016, 01:02 PM
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I would like your thoughts on by me staying away from him do you think he will respect me by not falling all over him and see me more than a fling or sineone he can cheat on his wife with
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May 12, 2016, 02:58 PM
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Do you really think that ones the flames died down he wouldn't do the same to you? with the coals in the fireplace of home cooling, the next new, cute, flirty girl that came along would draw him away... so take him off this pedestal of being some dreamy guy that happens to be married and put him in the bin where all the cheaters belong. |
| Bill3, eskielover, Trippin2.0
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May 12, 2016, 02:59 PM
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May 12, 2016, 03:36 PM
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By staying away from him & treating him just like everyone else, then in turn, he should treat you that same way as everyone else.....but mind you that word I used was SHOULD....it doesn't mean that's how he will. Depends on his personality & the way he sees things & that can't be predicted.
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May 26, 2016, 10:58 AM
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I want him to respect me and see me more than someone he can cheat with ..i want him to know im worth more than that even if i do have feelings for him
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| Tsukiko
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May 26, 2016, 11:13 AM
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So you want him to have REAL feelings for you, not just cheating feelings, so let me see if I understand your thinking....if you stay away, maybe he will realize he has true feelings for you & will leave his wife for you because you can't get rid of your feelings for him?
Dump your feelings for this schmuck. He cheats on his wife he will cheat on you if he were to leave her for you. He's a looser no matter what your feelings are telling you....feelings lie. His cheating behavior doesnt
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May 26, 2016, 11:15 AM
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Why do you care if he respects you more than a coworker?
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May 26, 2016, 04:05 PM
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True. Who cares how he looks at you, he's a married man. I've learned my lesson with these types of men and I can tell you, you're flirting with danger. Please just find someone else that's available and not a cheater. |
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May 26, 2016, 06:44 PM
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May 26, 2016, 07:35 PM
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You can PM if you like. I'll answer any questions you may have. |
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