[black-roses]

I honestly hate people and want to stupid prissy *****es to die everytime I make a suggestion on how to improve makeup they say I am attacking them when my comments are from a loving place. I am tired of them projecting their ****** personality towards me. I am tired my family said why are you crying over that. My mother is like it would take a lot more then nasty people to make me cry well I am sad it is upsetting I am not freaking superman. I am a freaking human with emotions I get sad too if anyone cares. Its odd because I can tolerate boys being arrogant and dicky towards me but a few girls and I am in tears. Females can truly be hell on earth. I have still followed people on instagram even though they kicked me out of groups because I am the type of person that sees the talent inside of everyone I look past there rudeness towards me will I can't do it anymore. I have to freaking call them out of it like I have been doing.

[Fuzzybear]

grrrrrrrrrr
(As you can imagine, I prefer bears )

Girls are hard work. I went to an all girls school and that was not a good experience... I get on much better with guys. Try not to take it too personally... It seems to come naturally for girls to be *****y and take things as an attack when it's not.

[Pikku Myy]

I am all about reducing "drama" in my life... One would have to drag me to a *****y girls group. Female here hope you feel better

I honestly hate people and want to stupid prissy *****es to die everytime I make a suggestion on how to improve makeup they say I am attacking them when my comments are from a loving place.

A loving place? Am I the only person here who sees the irony in that? I have an unsolicited suggestion. Stop making unsolicited suggestions on how people can improve their looks

[Finniky]

Is this just people you go to school with or something?

Do not be afraid to say what you think, and don't fall apart if it backfires, because sometimes it will. If you give someone a basic tip and they lose it, that's not your problem.

[black-roses]

it was an internet group

[Cavegirl]

I've worked doing makeup for quite a while. You can talk to me!!!

[MiddayNap]

I find your complaint confusing. I will dissect it only to ensure my comprehension is correct.
From what I understand, you are upset these girls became upset when you suggested how they might improve their makeup. Although one should always be open to criticism and I agree advice is nothing to get upset over, we cannot control how our words make others feel and it is ridiculous to be angered by a person's emotional response.
You say the reason they are upset is because they are projecting their own bad personality upon you and, as a result, perceive malice where there is none. I would say it is more their insecurities being projected, not their personalities. I do not know these girls or you and so will not make any assumptions on their character.
People are very prideful and they see suggestions on improvement to mean "you did not do a good job", generally speaking.
Again, this entire situation confuses me and so I cannot offer advice. Both parties seem silly.

[Finniky]

Originally Posted by black-roses

it was an internet group

People also tend to act more mean on internet groups because there are less repercussions than in person. I also don't think it means they are bad people. Just as you reacted in a very sensitive manner to their negative response to you, they too acted very sensitive from your comment in the start. Vicious cycle!

[black-roses]

Originally Posted by MiddayNap

I find your complaint confusing. I will dissect it only to ensure my comprehension is correct.
From what I understand, you are upset these girls became upset when you suggested how they might improve their makeup. Although one should always be open to criticism and I agree advice is nothing to get upset over, we cannot control how our words make others feel and it is ridiculous to be angered by a person's emotional response.
You say the reason they are upset is because they are projecting their own bad personality upon you and, as a result, perceive malice where there is none. I would say it is more their insecurities being projected, not their personalities. I do not know these girls or you and so will not make any assumptions on their character.
People are very prideful and they see suggestions on improvement to mean "you did not do a good job", generally speaking.
Again, this entire situation confuses me and so I cannot offer advice. Both parties seem silly.

Yes, people often perceive malice where there is none. The girl wanted suggestions to improve because her husband said it looked cheap and like no effort was put in. So I gave my honest opinion that the colour combination wasn't working but the overall idea was a good one. Never have I once said it was strange etc. So I don't know how they could interpert it as such.

[black-roses]

Originally Posted by Finniky

People also tend to act more mean on internet groups because there are less repercussions than in person. I also don't think it means they are bad people. Just as you reacted in a very sensitive manner to their negative response to you, they too acted very sensitive from your comment in the start. Vicious cycle!

Yes, thank you. I guess I will be communicating in a face to face avoid internet group situations.

[~Christina]

I have read many of your threads recently about a variety of issues and things that are upsetting to you.. I am sorry your hurting ,.. it does seem that some much of this pain is caused by your online activities... so why not limit your use of the internet to a reasonable amount of time. Say maybe 1 hour a day , Kinda quick run through of what are your top interests and then log out and get out into the real world.

I recently took a much needed break from my being on the internet . I would pop in Facebook and here once a day and kept in touch with a few friends I have around the world and then turned my laptop off. it was refreshing .

Good luck

[black-roses]

Originally Posted by ~Christina

I have read many of your threads recently about a variety of issues and things that are upsetting to you.. I am sorry your hurting ,.. it does seem that some much of this pain is caused by your online activities... so why not limit your use of the internet to a reasonable amount of time. Say maybe 1 hour a day , Kinda quick run through of what are your top interests and then log out and get out into the real world.

I recently took a much needed break from my being on the internet . I would pop in Facebook and here once a day and kept in touch with a few friends I have around the world and then turned my laptop off. it was refreshing .

Good luck

I think I may just do that the time limit seems more realistic then just quiting everything!