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Jun 12, 2016, 04:52 AM
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I'm so fed up of everytime there being a problem in our relationship the reason being me. I'm not normal. She is. I'm trying to be normal. I probably never will. I'm just the crazy girl who makes everything difficult. I love the bones of this woman but I'm thinking maybe it's never going to work. And it's all because of me. I'm a train wreck :-(
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Jun 12, 2016, 05:28 AM
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What happened Robyn?
As far as the "normal" part goes ... hell I'm one of the least normal people around ... whatever that may be, it's such a subjective term these days. Don't compare yourself to others to define yourself as being "normal" or not being normal. |
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Jun 12, 2016, 05:39 AM
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Ahh I got myself in a bad situation over the weekend and we are both feeling bad about it. I feel like she would be happier without me x
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Jun 12, 2016, 05:41 AM
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Sorry about the bad situation you got into.
Maybe discuss the situation with her when you've had a bit of time to forgive yourself / or think about what happened. |
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Jun 12, 2016, 05:49 AM
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We've discussed it. I just hate that I'm always messing up! All of the time. :-(
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Jun 12, 2016, 06:11 AM
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How are you messing up? Like overspend or break things or can't keep a job? What is the severity of your messing up?is it fixable?
I don't know about normal. Technically speaking if you mean having diagnosis and etc means one is not normal then out of us two I am normal and my fiancée isn't. But he is very easy to get along agreeable person while I am not so much. I could be a pain. And I am the one supposedly "normal" So I'd stop worrying about Normalcy Sent from my iPhone using Tapatalk |
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Jun 12, 2016, 07:20 AM
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Trying to be normal is one of the worst things I've ever subjected myself to.
Accepting the fact that I'm different and working my around it, (that goes for both me and my bf) has been the healthiest thing we could've done. I'm sorry to hear you're feeling so bad, try not to be so hard on yourself.
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Jun 12, 2016, 07:27 AM
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We're all a bit 'mad'. In fact philosopher Alain De Botton, who I have a lot of time for, in one of his 'school of life' videos says that instead of saying 'what do You do' when you meet someone it should be 'how are YOU mad?'
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| Yours_Truly
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