[black-roses]

Good news, I have finally been able to separate the bad men from the good ones I used to see it all in black and white but I just see the mean ones as little children having a tantrum. I guess the bad men don't have as much power as I used to give them they've becoming more powerless in my mind. I feel pretty happy now that there not all villains in my mind.

[NewCommer]

How do you tell the difference?

[divine1966]

Where do you meet all these men?

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[black-roses]

Originally Posted by divine1966

Where do you meet all these men?

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I am a very observant person I like to watch groups of people

[rdgrad15]

Originally Posted by black-roses

Good news, I have finally been able to separate the bad men from the good ones I used to see it all in black and white but I just see the mean ones as little children having a tantrum. I guess the bad men don't have as much power as I used to give them they've becoming more powerless in my mind. I feel pretty happy now that there not all villains in my mind.

Glad you are able to seperate the bad from the good. I am the same way in terms of seperating the bad from the good. I am a lot better at knowing whether or not someone is actually a mature grown up vs. someone who is like a child throwing a tantrum inside. Glad to see you are making progress and knowing that those who act like children have less power than they think they do.

[Hedgeleaf]

I feel I can see it if other people are with nasty/bad/childish men

My Own judgement for the men I choose.....? Well there are a few threads about that!

[black-roses]

Originally Posted by Hedgeleaf

I feel I can see it if other people are with nasty/bad/childish men

My Own judgement for the men I choose.....? Well there are a few threads about that!

I am the same good at seeing bad men from a distance good at disconnecting myself from them not so much xD You gotta laugh at your decisions sometimes or you'll become to serious.

You're so young...are you friends with any young women your age? Go to the mall for shopping, fun stuff? Your life might be more well-rounded if you focused less on men. There's no rush, you've got your whole life ahead of you.

[black-roses]

Originally Posted by rainyday107

You're so young...are you friends with any young women your age? Go to the mall for shopping, fun stuff? Your life might be more well-rounded if you focused less on men. There's no rush, you've got your whole life ahead of you.

Will now I have the chance to make friends in a different country