[newtus]

so i was in a 7 month relation wish a guy. im a girl. hes 2 years younger than me. which was fine.

there were many offs/ons going on during these 7 months.

the past few months he got somewhat angry at me, half threatening me. sayin "i know where you live". idk why he said that.

anywha fast forward now! he breaks up with me again. this time he says "this is for the final time". im like so "ok..."

call him the next day and was like "i was wondering what fhe real reason you broke up with?". he said "we talked about meaningless stuff. i am not that into you. youre too good for me.

um, what??? last 3 seemed like excuses. but i need advice, so please help

[ComfortablyNumb5]

Move on. He's made it clear that he wants it to be over so right now just give him space. You said you guys have been on and off so maybe this is meant to be. I'd have a nice cry, and move on.

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[Talthybius]

Romance is the most intense negotiating you'll ever enter.

You never ask why the other person rejected you, dumped you. They can't tell you the truth, even if they know themselves what it is. And I think people subconsciously make these decisions, then try to find a reason why they feel the way they feel. And that means they find whatever reason makes them feel good, not which is one more likely to be true.
And so even when someone tells you the truth, you don't know if they are ********ting. So any answer you get is a priori useless. Asking anyway is a sign of weakness.

Anyway, having a relationship with him apparently comes with all what you describe.

On what do you want advice?

[~Christina]

Grieve the loss ...

Every single relationship good or bad has lessons to be learned.

Maybe now you can think about what you want and do not want in a partner.

Take care

[Rose3]

Be appreciative about the good aspects.
Then accept that he changed his mind or something.
And with some time for your own reflection about things, then be able to move on too.