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I'm a cucumber with anxiety and chronic feel in ha of uncomfortableness moving out makes me uncomfortable people asking if I have a bf makes me uncomfortable. The idea of dating anyone makes me uncomfortable life makes me uncomfortable I am afraid of being friends with my own gender. I am always afraid that people aren't been genuine I fear betrayal I don't trust anyone. I am reluctant at opening up I fear abandonment and loneliness. I am confused a lot of the time and all these feelings just make me do nothing because I am busy processing all my feelings and fears. Just tell me what am I supposed to do?
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If your mother is just as dependent on you and wants to keep supporting and living with you forever, then just stay her baby. Is that what you want to be when you're 30? 40? It's up to you.
If you want to break away and be a responsible adult, get married, have children, have an authentic adult life experience, then get out of your mother's house and grow up.
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#3
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Ah it's so hard I know I should but right now I don't want to maybe next year will be better?
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How old are you? Do you have a full time job? Does your mother push you to be 'her baby'?
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20 and she also treats me like I am her little baby basic things like taking care of and holding my documents she keeps my stuff. She packs my stuff etc so I never really had to think ahead for myself because she takes my responsibility for me. So when an adult forces me to act my age I run crying to mummy.
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#6
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You're very young. Maybe she babies you because she thinks you can't handle responsibility. Just take small steps toward independence.
I have two sons close to your age. I was worried they wouldn't be able to be responsible in college, but they rose to the occasion and I am proud of them. Still, I help them with organizing things like doctor appointments and paperwork or plane tickets, etc...
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I have been growing up for a very long time and it still makes me uncomfortable...
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