[Rhapsody]

TRUST

<font color="#880000">How do YOU regain trust after it has been broken...... and yet doubt lives inside of you even though you hate the doubt?
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... you fight against the doubt and yet it wins, for wound were made that shoud not have been by a trusted loved one.

... wounds: sexual in nature.

... doubts, marriage, husband, broken-love, trying to heal.

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[Direction]

I think they the only way is time...time to see a person consistently behaving in a way that is trustworthy...

Time = undefine though it is generally years...

[MyBestKids2]

((((Rhapsody))))))))

[Rhapsody]

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Direction said:
I think they the only way is time...time to see a person consistently behaving in a way that is trustworthy...

Time = undefine though it is generally years...

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YES.... and that is what has me concerned (the years) - for it has been 5 years now and I still do not trust him and the doubts come with out warning, but I am starting to see that I need to change my thinking for the person has changed and is still changing as to improve him self and his short comings.

I pray it does not take the ten years it took to destroy me.... but if it does I will hang in there.

[silentlyscreaming]

I think the age old saying......you can forgive, but you can't forget..........hits the nail on the head.

[Rhapsody]

Does it ever............ Oh to have lived 40 years and not have been wounded in the first place?

... what is that like? - does any one know?

[Wants2Fly]

Hi Rhapsody -- No one is getting out of this place alive, and anyone who loves takes on the risk of being wounded. To love is to allow ourselves to be vulnerable. Whether we lose the beloved other -- be it parent, sibling, friend, lover or pet -- we feel the pain. It is the flip side of love.

I have a metaphysical view of this, but this is not the place for those comments.